Thank you for your perspective and comment. For every comment like yours, there are 20 with the opposite POV, and reading comments like yours helps balance and validate some of my feelings.
You do not force her to be comfortable with this. You accept that she doesn't like it and doesn't have to. You keep bringing up scenarios that aren't applicable, in some desperate attempt to ok this situation. It's fine to find someone attractive. It's NOT fine to lie to your partner about it and try to move in with them. This is a normal boundary for most of the general population.
Contrary to what you seem obsessed with thinking, no one is having issues understanding what you're saying. You just don't seem to grasp it or want to listen.
We’ve discussed it I told her if she needs space let me know she’s a college student I try not to interfere with her school it should be her main priority. I think she’s afraid i would leave if she told me everything but it’s the opposite. Also being in a “situationship” makes things different like you said she isn’t obligated to tell me her history. Perhaps I am the problem
Are you familiar with gun laws in Georgia? I could go buy one on my lunch break it's so easy.
Thank you for your perspective and comment. For every comment like yours, there are 20 with the opposite POV, and reading comments like yours helps balance and validate some of my feelings.
Why are you overcomplicating it?
You do not force her to be comfortable with this. You accept that she doesn't like it and doesn't have to. You keep bringing up scenarios that aren't applicable, in some desperate attempt to ok this situation. It's fine to find someone attractive. It's NOT fine to lie to your partner about it and try to move in with them. This is a normal boundary for most of the general population.
Contrary to what you seem obsessed with thinking, no one is having issues understanding what you're saying. You just don't seem to grasp it or want to listen.
Thankyou!
We’ve discussed it I told her if she needs space let me know she’s a college student I try not to interfere with her school it should be her main priority. I think she’s afraid i would leave if she told me everything but it’s the opposite. Also being in a “situationship” makes things different like you said she isn’t obligated to tell me her history. Perhaps I am the problem
The only correct answer to your question:
He was joking, and you’re overreacting.