Leave it alone you’re going to harm somebody else in the mix of this I know you think it’s flattering because she likes you. But she has a boyfriend do not put him in this position just let it go.
I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that will not make her feel bad.
Truth is there is no way to not make her feel bad as that's the outcome of her actions, what you can do is minimize that by being cautious about the words and tone that you use. Start by saying that she is looking good in the photos but ….. Then start with your concerns. Be honest about your feelings and setting boundaries.
Also ask your friend to delete all the photos. Then go low contact with him until you're over this.
No other possibility
I think I did this already — it’s more that he keeps checking for more advice.
Leave it alone you’re going to harm somebody else in the mix of this I know you think it’s flattering because she likes you. But she has a boyfriend do not put him in this position just let it go.
Are you being sarcastic?
I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that will not make her feel bad.
Truth is there is no way to not make her feel bad as that's the outcome of her actions, what you can do is minimize that by being cautious about the words and tone that you use. Start by saying that she is looking good in the photos but ….. Then start with your concerns. Be honest about your feelings and setting boundaries.
Also ask your friend to delete all the photos. Then go low contact with him until you're over this.
This makes me wonder how the room mate responded afterwards. I mean I can’t imagine she would have been anything but very apologetic about all this.