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Date: November 17, 2022
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He might desire you greatly, but he surely hasn't known you long enough to love you.
He could be unstable emotionally. Or, he could be consciously trying to set you up. Either way, it doesn't sound like a relationship you want to continue.
Then his actions are 100% reasonable and you shouldn't be hurt or offended. Why are you posting again?
Thanks for your response. This is pretty much my view on the subject as well, just wanted some outside perspective as well so it's nice to see someone agrees somewhat.
You're welcome! I'm glad that I could provide some perspective on the topic. It's always helpful to consider different viewpoints and to have discussions about important issues. If you have any other questions or want to discuss further, please don't hesitate to ask.
And if you find your self comfortable to talk these things to a coach , then as a mental health coach i will be available to help you also
Don't get back together holy s
Trying to put myself in her place: she would much rather go do something fun with you, like visit India, than spend a month back at 'home' with her parents. However, she can't NOT go back home, due to family expectations.
She's not seeing it as, “she gets to have fun and you're stuck at home”. She's seeing it as “she has to go do the family thing, okay the role of the dutiful daughter who would never do something rebellious like date a white boy, among people she loves but who can't accept her, while you have the freedom to do whatever the hell you want”.
And once you've gone to India on your own, that's likely not something you'll want to do again with her. So she will miss out on that.
If there is no trust in the relationship there isn't a relationship to begin with.
yes lmaoooo he has cheated on u an insane amount, his best friend treats u like shit, u have to make 10202020 rules just to try and get him to live! nicely w u.
you obviously have some self esteem issues or something and tbh i can see myself doing similar to what tou have done. regardless, ur bf is a disgusting little man and you genuinely need to break it off w him. i feel like ur probably codependant (me too) but genuinely you will be unhappier if you stay. breaking up w my abusive ex felt like the most disastrous thing that could've ever happened to me but the past year without him has been so much better than the year i had with him. i now have a new bf who treats me much better and better friends and am overall in a better place than i was when i was with him.
staying with him and moving in w him is a stupid and detrimental decision. im not saying you are a stupid person but be real here, he is scum and you are just,,, watching it happen ? break up w him, move in alone or w a good friend and just stay single for a while to work on urself, heal, and online ur best life.
dont make a stupid decision. you obviously know its a bad choice or you wouldn't be here.
I was going to suggest seeing HR about this because this is the very definition of harassment and yes, men can be harassed by women. The fact that she comes in on her days off in order to hang around you is beyond creepy and not normal. Switch the genders around in this situation and see how violently people react. You can also say that you don't ever date co-workers. You're there to get the work done and that's it.
Don't sleep on your back, turn sideways.
RED RED RED
Gain some experience? Some experiencing in dealing with a wife who has a sudden realization that God wants to keep her rapists baby and force me to raise it as my own?
Quit pretending like this is anywhere in the realm of normalcy. This is far and beyond any normal set of circumstances and to treat it like it is and is simply a matter of “experience” is laughable.
If you want to open your relationship because its lacking something on it, its better to just end it, open marriage is supposed to be something you do when you have a good and stablished relationship and feel safe to open it, not to try to resolve an ongoing problem.
An pratical example is, you open it, you go on a date with a guy, this guy supply all those needs your husband doesnt, its matter of time till you fall for him, its the recipe for disaster opening marriage when things is going bad.
The anger feels so real and hot to control. I does not have to make sense, Its just there. manifesting itself. Even I knew it was just a story but when I was young I was clueless. mental health was for weak people.
Years later, It feels good to share the things I struggled with, even if it helps a few relate.
To anyone struggling with any trauma, You deserve to get help. It make you stronger
Op… What you wrote is he is raping you nightly.
He is conciously, evilly nastily assaultng you and then the icing on the top of his terrifying personality is his hiding his hands and pretending it never happened.
I know “gasslighting” is a phrase used incorrectly alot and thrown around too casually.
But gasslighting is exactly the maniplative abuse technique he is crafting to get arlway with raping you each night and you still letting him sleep beside you.
The danger is in your bed. Don't ever let this man be near you especially when vulnerable.
Go to the police if you wish. But protect yourself. You are sleeping beside your predator. And a slimy stealthy one at that.
Lmao he is smart as fuck to not give you money. Get your own taco bell broke ass. Lmfao.
Omg that's embarrassing for me.
As of now, he doesn't want to marry you.
The pressure is probably counterproductive.
Instead of asking him when he will propose, try talking about what marriage means to both of you so that you can both understand why one wants it but the other doesn't.
Yeah, this happened.
I don’t think people often just wake up one day and change their mind on such a fundamental issue. There are two likely scenarios:
she says yes, gets pregnant and is an absentee mother at best because she considered this a compromise
she says she wants kids but remains on birth control and has “issues getting pregnant”
The latter, while mischievous, isn’t unheard of.