it’s understandable that this makes you uncomfortable. all you really can do is talk to her about it. tell her how it makes you feel and if she’d be willing to wear a bathing suit. if not, you need to decide if this is a deal breaker or not.
Your BF clearly can do good work, but interpersonal relationships at work are vital. His boss probably had a full-body shiver at the thought of your BF interacting with upper management or clients or whatever and him pulling some kind of nonsense like returning the award.
He's casting himself as a victim and some kind of working-class hero, but he really just needs to be about his work and being a team player.
per chance is her neuroatypical ? you may also be which is why you never noticed. These patterns is literally my life story, to the point i just tried to not overload friends because i knew i was 'annoying' and didnt always pick up social queues well. Also happily married to a dude who is also neuroatypical in different ways
This is what I did.
it’s understandable that this makes you uncomfortable. all you really can do is talk to her about it. tell her how it makes you feel and if she’d be willing to wear a bathing suit. if not, you need to decide if this is a deal breaker or not.
Your BF clearly can do good work, but interpersonal relationships at work are vital. His boss probably had a full-body shiver at the thought of your BF interacting with upper management or clients or whatever and him pulling some kind of nonsense like returning the award.
He's casting himself as a victim and some kind of working-class hero, but he really just needs to be about his work and being a team player.
per chance is her neuroatypical ? you may also be which is why you never noticed. These patterns is literally my life story, to the point i just tried to not overload friends because i knew i was 'annoying' and didnt always pick up social queues well. Also happily married to a dude who is also neuroatypical in different ways