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Date: October 1, 2022
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Why do you need updates for a bestie night? What are you afraid of? Both of the instances where she was gone, you absolutely knew ahead of time what she was doing and who she was with. Go the fuck to sleep. She’s a grown woman.
If I went for a girls night and was constantly bothered with texts and phone calls, I would take that as a sign you don’t trust me. Why would I be looking at my phone if I’m out with friends and you know this? It comes across very codependent on your end.
There will always be people who are just as helpful, minus the misogyny. If he can’t change and you’re not okay with it, keep that in mind. There are plenty of wonderful people who don’t say those things ❤️
If you know you don’t want kids, why not? Dudes be out here pissed off they impregnated a woman & that she decides whether to terminate or not….but it wouldn’t happen if they just idk…had a vasectomy? I got pregnant on birth control 5 years into my current relationship. My partner didn’t think we were ready for kids. I told him I’d absolutely NOT get an abortion & that if he wanted to leave; now would be the time. Told him he can leave now and I wouldn’t come for him for anything to do with the child. He stayed with his mom 4 months of my pregnancy trying to figure out what he wanted to do. He decided he couldn’t leave his child fatherless. We entered couples therapy and we now have a 2 year old and been together 7 years. He will be getting a vasectomy soon because we made it clear to one another that 1 child that was an accident is enough. He’s taking one for the team and getting a vasectomy.
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Unfortunately I’ve brought it up before and my old manager’s response was that they can’t fire him for personal reasons outside of work since he does his job. When brought up to my other manager, his wife, the one I mentioned I was told “Who’s gonna pick up his hours?” since he works quite a bit. My other current store manager (we have two) wants to promote him since he’s an asshole an they’re buddies now. The guys at work like him which makes me upset
Let it go man. No need to re-open that wound. The best way to apologize is by leaving her in the past. Let the girl heal.
This is what I think actually happened. Gross.
Tldr: you’re a horrible parent and your wife is trying to give your son slack in order not to belittle his 10 year old ego and brain. Get some friends and play with them instead, your obvious lack of self awareness and lack of empathy towards your sons base of self evaluation is so apparent any 1st year psychology student would draw the same conclusion.
Have you told your wife that you're at the end of your rope? That without any constructive help on her part you are thinking about ending this marriage?
I think I'd sit down calmly and try to have a serious mature conversation with her. Tell her you're lost and hurting and you don't know what else to try. Tell her how much it affects you to not be able to hug her or have any intimacy on that level (I'd leave the sex out for now, you have much bigger issues to tackle first)
I think I'd probably circle back around to couples counseling. I'd to explain that you find benefits from your therapy. And how you hope it can help you find better communication. Because it doesn't sound like you two are effectively communicating your needs. I might ultimately tell her it's a condition of your two remaining married.
You mentioned your wife has seen doctors but didn't like them. Has she talked about the possibility of PPD?
So far the only feedback you've mentioned from her is that the housework may be unfair. Can you come up with a chore delegation? What concrete steps does she want you to take in regards to household chores? This could be a real factor. How do you set up chores now? Who does what?
Having to raise a child as isolated as she is I can absolutely see how it could be a huge factor if she feels she is also having to parent you and clean up after you. That can kill attraction for sure.
I also noticed you say your wife doesn't “believe” in a lot of things. Therapy. The gym. Etc. What does that mean? Does she seriously think that working out at a gym doesn't equate to improved fitness? Does she think therapy and psychology is a quack science? Or is this something she says more hyperbolically?
Also your wife used to do sex work. Now it sounds like she enjoyed her job but there can be a lot of toxicity in sex work. Is there possible baggage from this? That could obviously be impacting intimacy.
I’m proud of you, OP. Leaving someone you care about is never easy, no matter the situation.
With that said, please listen to everyone here: you are a good person, and kind and empathetic man, who is doing the right thing caring for a family member who can’t care for herself. Nothing about what you’re doing is gross, perverted, or wrong.
I’m glad you don’t have your ex’s toxic and judgmental garbage in your ear anymore. SHE is the one with the sick mind, not you.
Sending hugs, my friend.
Because almost every time this gets brought up, the other person’s reactions are “why am I not good enough for you? Are you going to cheat anyway if I say no? Did you already meet someone and you’re just looking for permission to fuck them guilt-free?” There’s a lot of doubt and insecurity about the relationship that can get introduced when you bring stuff like that up, and it’s very nude to salvage a relationship where those feelings have taken hold.
this entire thread including op is weird asf
Bro, you can't allow this to happen, take control of your house. He needs to not be there unless you're there. How long has this been going on?
We are obviously not going to agree since I don't believe it's proper or right to listen in on anybody's therapy session especially your partners and you seem to believe that it's a perfectly normal thing to do. She didn't overhear a little bit of it she listened to the rest of it, she should have made it known that she woke up and immediately left the area so that he could have his privacy. I get the feeling that you would have said the exact opposite if it was him that woke up and overheard her.
None just embrace the fact she's with you.
Being married, engaged at age 25 isn't all it's cracked up to be. You need to be 30ish to be sure that you know what you are about. Sad, lonely, and confused are symptoms of a need for exercise. Alleviating all of those conditions could simply be a matter of 30 minutes of aerobic exercise every day. Brain chemistry is directly related to exercise. Best wishes.
Come on people it is obviously fake. Written for Reddit. Enjoyable story though
She was asking your permission to get with another guy, so your permission to cheat on the relationship. The conversation is, unfortunately, a bell that can't be unrung here… It's up to you whether you can move past this, but I don't think I could.
I am a caregiver for an elderly family member. It has taken up most of my time until recently when we got more support.
Cool. That changes nothing.
My sister was more involved last year because she was off work and had the time.
She still put in more work than you. This changes nothing.
My dad is fine with teaching this person, which is fine but can be done somewhere else off sovereign indigenous land.
No, you don't seem to understand this. This is co-owned land. You don't get to dictate shit.
She has a 1 in 4 stake.
Notice how that's more than zero, and yours isn't 100%. Wow. Amazing.
Thus, she has rights to bring people at any time for any reason. Suck it up, buttercup.
I actually spoke to my sister today and she agreed that she has been neglecting a lot of her relationships including ours.
Ah, so you're great at gaslighting a late-20s woman into feeling guilty for having a normal life where she spends her free time her own way. That makes you look way better.
She also apologized for breaking protocol by inviting a stranger to this family activity without consulting or informing her 3 siblings.
Once again, signs of you guilt tripping her because she did nothing wrong. She has the right to do this. You're in the wrong.
You also have taken my words out of context. In saying that I am comfortable having my dad present for this part, I was referring to the ceremonial aspect.
Nope, I got that context. Your choices should have been between not doing it (like last year) or doing it with him involved. Him not being involved should have never crossed your mind.
Which again, my sister agreed that her friend should not be part of because he has no right to our practices.
Which she said after you guilted her about having a normal social life outside of you……
Further, regarding allowing my dad to live on our land, that is the fact of the matter. He has no right to live! on this land.
If any of the owners let him, then yes he does. You're either ignorant of how the real world works or you're a top class manipulator. Which one?
Cutting it off, seems likely the best option.
Honestly, it's naked as F**k to think that I will be losing someone who's practically become a staple in my life for the past half-year, but You're absolutely right.
Take my Masterpiece Award because this is fucking PERFECT!
So you guys had casual sex, he knocked you up, and y'all didn't talk during that entire 9 month period? Did he know he was the father?
So you guys had casual sex, he knocked you up, and y'all didn't talk during that entire 9 month period? Did he know he was the father?