I think if you have such strict and devout religious expectations, you really should only date people who hold the same beliefs. Not to judge you for your values, but they are very extreme. It’s not reasonable to date non religious or non extremely devout people and expect them to adjust to your ways.
It’s not “normal” for most dating adults to find mild flirtatious innuendo offensive and uncomfortable. For most dating adults, sex is healthy and normal part of relationship, therefore talking about it causally is also healthy.
This issue is really your personal one. Don’t try to date non devout people, unless you can adapt to it.
You cannot control how she acts, but you can control your boundaries and how you react to her. When you talk and talk and talk and someone continues not to respect you or listen and acknowledge your feelings, the only thing you can do is leave.
Physical attraction and “good person” aren’t shit when it comes to marriage! And 3 months in… he’s just trying to marriage and then probably baby trap you. There is no rush for the rest of your life. If this is the guy, it’s gonna be the rest of your life anyway.
My guess is by the time you’re 26, you’re gonna know that this cheap ass was the wrong guy for you.
It’s not you it’s me. That’s what she’s said to you. And it’s a perfectly legitimate reason to end something with someone. It could be she cheated. It could also be she just doesn’t like the way she is with you.
Anyone can get married, not everyone can become a doctor. I got my med school graduation next month, wouldn't want to miss it for the world and your family is wrong to make you miss yours. Congrats!
It’s exactly those types of “platonic” gestures that lead to the non-platonic ones.
I think if you have such strict and devout religious expectations, you really should only date people who hold the same beliefs. Not to judge you for your values, but they are very extreme. It’s not reasonable to date non religious or non extremely devout people and expect them to adjust to your ways.
It’s not “normal” for most dating adults to find mild flirtatious innuendo offensive and uncomfortable. For most dating adults, sex is healthy and normal part of relationship, therefore talking about it causally is also healthy.
This issue is really your personal one. Don’t try to date non devout people, unless you can adapt to it.
She'd known that relationship was dead for several months and needed to figure out a living situation moving out, she wasn't in danger.
You cannot control how she acts, but you can control your boundaries and how you react to her. When you talk and talk and talk and someone continues not to respect you or listen and acknowledge your feelings, the only thing you can do is leave.
Physical attraction and “good person” aren’t shit when it comes to marriage! And 3 months in… he’s just trying to marriage and then probably baby trap you. There is no rush for the rest of your life. If this is the guy, it’s gonna be the rest of your life anyway.
My guess is by the time you’re 26, you’re gonna know that this cheap ass was the wrong guy for you.
It’s not you it’s me. That’s what she’s said to you. And it’s a perfectly legitimate reason to end something with someone. It could be she cheated. It could also be she just doesn’t like the way she is with you.
Anyone can get married, not everyone can become a doctor. I got my med school graduation next month, wouldn't want to miss it for the world and your family is wrong to make you miss yours. Congrats!