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Date: November 28, 2022
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Does that also count when the person often baby talk or speak in the childish way with their partner? I mean once in a while is fine, but when done often I find it annoying.
Oh wow, he really decided to do that? I’m so sorry about this. My mom had a similar experience, my dad left for vacation the week of her due date, and as she has no family, she went to the hospital herself and gave birth by herself. No one deserves to go through it alone. All I can say is that you will be able to make it through, I know it’s difficult and I don’t know exactly how you feel, but your family and friends will be there for you. Get a trusted one to help you, and ultimately, it is you who will get yourself through this. You can do it. And even if you can’t, do it for your baby. All luck to you.
It doesn't matter wether he likes the situation or not.
I'm sorry that my words come across like that. You'll be pleased to know I have taken reddits overwhelming advice and am not going to holiday with Amy.
I wanted to offer as much nuance and context as I could, hence why I have tried so nude to respond to every comment. I'm sorry it comes across like I am trying to push back. I just wanted everyone to have a full picture of what's happening.
Look up articles on mental load and/or weaponized incompetence. It’s okay to leave over this if it was the last straw, and it’s also okay to talk to him about it one more time and how he’s making you feel and see if anything changes.
bro any “massage parlor” that has anything the least bit Asian about it, you are getting a Happy Ending whether you want it or not lol
Do not tell her right now!!!!! These people could get you in serious danger! When you move you can tell her. Keep everything and then tell him you are cutting him off.
Send it to her when you are in the clear
I went through this with my partner, I loved going out I was 21 when I met him so I was clubbing and just out all time. I would invite him but since he was older he was also done with the party part of his life. It didn't give us any problems and we were fine eventually a couple years later I didn't like going out all the time.
Look, if you can’t get him to change please, please get rid of him while you still can. In all our years married by ex husband never ONCE cooked a meal, did the grocery shopping, did a load of laundry, vacuumed the floor…..you get the idea. He did NOTHING. He wouldn’t even put the clothes he expected ME to wash in the laundry hamper and would just leave them scattered around the house. Since I divorced him, my new partner either does things with me, or, I’ll come home and things are just already done. I can never thank him enough (we’ve been together 6 years now but I can’t seem to get used to it). He looks at me kinda weird and goes ‘babe, we’re both adults that on-line in this house. Why are you thanking me? It’s not like it’s just your job’ Look for that. DONT marry my ex husband. Please. I can’t tell you the depths of misery living with someone like that for years will bring you. Oh, and now that we’re divorced and he’s on his own? He does it all. His house is cleaner than mine. So all that ‘I can’t, I don’t know how’ really was just ‘I don’t want to, don’t you understand? I got married so I would have a slave, why would I do anything myself? If you had a dog, are you gonna bark at passers-by??’
socially retarded sort of guy
can you not?
‘Compromise’ is very different to ‘do what you’re told to do with your LIFE.’
Biggest example – if one person in a couple wants children and the other doesn’t, then that’s not something you can ‘compromise’ on. It’s flat out incompatibility, and that’s that.
That’s just the biggest life choice example, but there are many others.
This woman doesn’t want to quit her job and ‘provide’ for the man (which seems to mean stay home and cook/clean, I’m guessing), nor does she want to pop out a baby right now. So there’s no way to ‘compromise’ there – you either have a career or don’t. You either have a baby or don’t.
Move on. She's done with you and there's nothing you can do to get her back.
Thanks, yes, this is all very sensible. I'm worried to tackle the kids conversation too directly too soon, but I know it needs to come. What I hope I can do is make her see that we aren't so different – that big commitments are also scary to me, but hope to make her see how much stronger we can be as a team.
I also need to make her understand how my journey in my 30s might be close to hers: getting comfortable with a certain status quo, until coming to the realisation later that I was stuck and stagnant and not happy at all
I'm pretty sure I can't use the negative approach of showing how much risk she's taking by trying to keep uncommitted (even if that's how she feels)
But how do I stop it from happening in the first place? The chances are given after the initial cheating
Men who do this stuff in a relationship reek of immaturity. I'm not going to tell you to leave him, but I want you to consider how you'd feel if you can't change him, would you still be happy in this relationship if he continued to do it? Because that's a very likely scenario.
I was with a guy who had many red flags for 3 years and I thought I could change him, then I thought of whether or not I'd be happy going forward if this was what I'd have to deal with forever, and I decided I wasn't. And I'm so glad I did because I went off and found someone much better.
Judging from your comments you seem pretty insecure, assuming that you won't find someone better. This is something we all feel, but trust me, if you can land one man you can land another. You won't be alone for long if you put yourself out there. Most relationships in your teens and early 20s will be unsuccessful, and that's okay, because you are learning what your standards are. I do believe that everyone in your life is there for a reason, and perhaps his purpose in your life is to show you what to avoid in your next partner.
You put a damp warm math textbook in your vagina.
He began loosing interest because you guys weren't having sex after being close for 2 weeks and things not going anywhere, and then you stormed into his work place and made a scene
That is what you did the wrong and he is right, he does not owe you an explanation.
You have nothing to apologize for and you did nothing wrong. S if a horrible person and you’re lucky you aren’t friends anymore. What you said to her was correct, she is like your cheating ex. Don’t apologize. Don’t feel bad. Block delete and move on from her toxicity.