IDK, at 21, I had enough moral ethics not to try to score men involved in relationships. That’s old enough to judge something like that. The only excuse is if they genuinely had no idea the guy was taken, or I can even see one being manipulated into believing any trash talk of gf or promising to break up. Maybe if OP is curious, she could ask Samantha what’s up with that.
I read over what you wrote a few times and I think I have to accept this aspect about her. I want to talk to her to understand her better more than just to rekindle things again, but I guess it’s better to just move on. Thank you for taking the time to read everything.
Does she drink alcohol? Have you asked her the reasons why she prevents you from taking alcohol??
IDK, at 21, I had enough moral ethics not to try to score men involved in relationships. That’s old enough to judge something like that. The only excuse is if they genuinely had no idea the guy was taken, or I can even see one being manipulated into believing any trash talk of gf or promising to break up. Maybe if OP is curious, she could ask Samantha what’s up with that.
Dear God leave! What lessons will those children pick up on?!
but what do I do?
I'm thoroughly fed up…
You get fed up! You set your boundaries. Financial stability is apart of your values for the longevity of the relationship.
SET THE BOUNDARY. ENFORCE THE BOUNDARY.
If he will not set his boundaries with his mother then there is no longevity with him. He will always have his mom as a +1 in everything.
I read over what you wrote a few times and I think I have to accept this aspect about her. I want to talk to her to understand her better more than just to rekindle things again, but I guess it’s better to just move on. Thank you for taking the time to read everything.