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Kira aka Droolia Roberts, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
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At least she gave you your money back, definitely do not loan that much to anyone no more.
A lot of people freak out about this, but look, for a lot of men, it’s important to have PROOF of paternity. This is not an accusation of cheating like a lot of people say. They can desire PROOF of paternity without accusing you of cheating. And yeah, they have your word, but that isn’t really proof now, is it? Him trusting you has absolutely no bearing on whether or not the child is his. I say it’s not a big deal. He should be able to be empathetic of your experience, but you should also be able to be empathetic of his.
I worry about your semi solid relationships.
I'll stick with my very solid one, ty.
If it isn't the consequences of your actions, huh? I have a friend and her husband.. he's been ways to her. I've seen her cry and be hurt. And let me tell you something. Her friend Sally dislikes you because you were verbally abusive to her friend. We see this, we don't like this. A good friend will absolutely be disgusted with that behavior.
It's great that you attended therapy, but I wouldn't expect easy forgiveness. It's only been roughly 4-5 months since you've been back. It will probably take a lot longer with changed behavior for them to give you a chance.
As for the friend situation.. you don't have to hang out with her friends. It's completely healthy for you to have your own friends to hang out with. Your girlfriend should not need to take you everywhere with her.
Go out. Make some new friends if your friends don't hang out with you anymore. You're putting way too much importance on her little friend group.
i was 18 when we started dating
Well, I have tons of other addictions to shopping to read it even to going to school for so long. So I have found other things. But yeah, I had a whole life because of it and that I would’ve never had. I would’ve been dead long ago. Good luck to you.
She was wearing it the first few weeks, shes never been shy about wearing it.
Tell the wife, it’s always better to know the truth. I always wished someone had told me about my ex’s affair.
” 30 seconds to take chicken out of the freezer”
This reminds me of a spoiled/sheltered mommas boy type friend I had in highschool, who once said to me ” how long does it take to wash up some clothes(meaning wash and dried) five minutes?”
I said ” looks like someone's mommy does his wash still.”
As a grown man who has cooked and cleaned for myself since I was a literal child, I can guarantee you this man was used to mommy (or someone) cooking for him all his life as well. “An expression of love” aka what he's used to and/or expects.
I also worked full time as a blue collar biz owner and also did all of the cooking or picked us both up takeout on my way home, as my ex did/would not cook,but a handful of time over 8yrs living together. She also barely worked for my co from home, after she woke up at 12-2pm and half-ass returned some calls aka played phone tag with my customers.
Splitting the cooking? Absolutely fair and shouldn't be an argument. I later realized my ex not only not loved me, she didn't even care about me. Imo people who don't reciprocate care or share responsibilities do not,in general,care about the other party.
“What should I do?”
Either leave or accept it I suppose. This won't change and is only the beginning of one sided viewpoints and ridiculous expectations.
You can certainly talk to him. But you also need to be prepared to apologize for snooping his phone and whatever trust issues arise from that.
I don’t see why you couldn’t have asked him to call your phone for you instead of grabbing his.
And now you’ve seen stuff that has you bothered even though you have basically no context.
Like….I’m in this sub. I interact on this sub. But I’m not having any relationship issues myself.
Whilst this is absolutely the right response intellectually, 20yo me probably would take the advice from the thread above and go with the definitive “ok”. Both are civil.
But either way once you draw a line under it, you need to stop texting with her and move on. She may want to try to réengage with you and draw you back in. This leads to endless drama which is unproductive. She wasn’t ready or willing to accept what you were offering as you offered it. She is no more likely to cherish your affections later.
I was almost exactly where you are now at 18yos. I let thé drama linger a bit (a few weeks) and if just wasn’t worth it.
Good luck mate. Sorry this happened to you. Love sucks sometimes.
Girls would be not okay with it too lmao
Recommend keeping a close watch on controlling tendencies for your b/f.
Hassling a female about her relationship status in the street is unwelcome attention and inappropriate.
I want to do couples counseling and he agreed but it’s been hot to find anyone. It’s so hard because taking this current situation out everything is great, we get along perfectly, we never fight, we have the same goals etc. But for some reason this current housing situation is just breaking us.
Your bf is trying to make you doubt and shame yourself, for no good reason at all, and that simply isn’t loving behavior at all. It clearly shows he values his own comfort over your feelings or happiness. He’s showing you he ha no problem trying to get you to hate yourself if it means he can get his way.
I get you love the guy, but this is the kind of red flag you run from, because if it works on you now, it will absolutely continue and get worse. This is an abusive relationship, with huge warning flags that’ll it’ll get even more abusive.
I genuinely feel its worrying that you felt safer saying you self harmed than to just admit it was from some natural bf gf time