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♥, LUSH♥@Goal:CUM♥PVT 6 TKNS♥#squirt#latina#lovense#new ♥ [Multi Goal]
Date: November 14, 2022
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♥, LUSH♥@Goal:CUM♥PVT 6 TKNS♥#squirt#latina#lovense#new ♥ [Multi Goal]
What I personally think would be best is asking her if she still wants you guys to give it another go. And telling her that because you do want that you haven't and don't even want to be with anyone else. That you can give her space if she needs it but that at some point you'll need to know if what happened was consented or not.
Just be ready to listen and play it cool bassicly.
Not in all places. Some jurisdictions will have varying degrees of common law/de facto marriage type commitments but in some jurisdictions the only way to be committed to a relationship is to be legally married.
With regards to what he did or didn't say though it's pretty clear that he wasn't explicit enough if she didn't understand. It's not hot, you just say I'm not looking to get into a fully committed relationship, I won't marry you/do necessary things to end up in a common law marriage with you, if that's something that is important to you then this won't work.
It's definitely the default expectation that people are looking for a committed relationship and it's really not ok to string them along when you could so easily set them straight. It's duplicitous to start a relationship without being clear that you're not looking for something the other party would expect from you. I don't think I'd ever remarry if my marriage ended, I don't need to quite frankly. I couldn't imagine stringing along a guy for years letting him think that we're headed down the path to commitment when I know we're not, that just seems so wrong.
You don't sound like you should be in a relationship.
Figure out what you want and do it. Your entire post was about your husband and what he wants that he wants you around and he won't let you go. Is there a gun to your head? Is third place in your marriage comfortable for you, you come after his friend and weed. This is your life, LEAVE if you are unhappy. Who the fuck cares what he wants, he has what he wants his friend and weed. WHat do you want?
Sounds like she is insecure, doesn't believe she can be loved or wanted… There is something like the “main character syndrome” where people believe everything is about them. She seems to have the opposite, where she believes it can't be about her, she can't be the first choice. This maybe above the pay grade of a relationship, and her doing a therapy might be a good idea… If you want to stay in the relationship, take the time to reassure her a lot.
Sorry, I know it's your mom, but she is a horrible person. She is still trying to needle your bio dad. If your step dad dances with you, you can kiss your relationship with him goodbye.
Well next time he pulls that shit than say “well I guess you should find somewhere else to on-line because I deserve better than this. Either pull your weight or get out because the way this are now, my life WILL be easier without you.” And follow through if he does not change.
This is a come to Jesus moment. This man does not care about you or respect you. You can not change him because he has to want to change. And he doesn’t. So have the come to Jesus convo and when that inevitably doesn’t work, you need to leave him.
You will not believe the weight that lifts off of your shoulders when he’s not in the picture.