Yes, this. Complaining that she wants it to be all about her when he only wants it to be all about him. Going in dry hurts her but feels good for him so that is somehow all “me me me” for her not wanting sex to hurt. This man is an abusive loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
Yeah maybe I’m overthinking idk. I know it’s normal for your friends to mix with your girlfriend and what not but just thought this seemed so extreme. Pretty sure my friend talks to her more than me now haha
If you trust that you're honest with each other, how would a conversation go if he wanted to hang out with a female friend and he told you that she was just a platonic friend? Would you believe him? Would he believe you if you told him that your male friend was just a friend?
“Azul, I do trust my partner. It's them other people I don't trust.”
As long as you trust your partner, other people's intentions do not matter. Because your partner will keep boundaries in check one way or another.
That doesn't matter. Your family and friends most likely have been waiting for you to reach out for yeras.
I’ve started planning to leave before but I can’t bring myself to. I want my kids to have both parents and I just want my nice, caring husband.
Google “the cycle of abuse”, you're still in the midst of it.
Your kids suffer from being with their dad. Do you want them to normalise the abuse? Do you want them to resent you for staying? Do you want them to seek out similar partners like your spouse? He's toxic, he's not nice, he's not caring.
you're young. she's young. You are both learning what exactly you want/need. If you have a bad taste now, it's not suddenly going to get better. Cut bait now and look elsewhere.
You buy whatever medication they need to treat it (I imagine there's a cream or something to treat the bites? Never really had a flea issue despite owning animals all my life) and make some cookies or lasagna or whatever it is you have a good recipe for that yields a lot. You leave both on the porch with a note explaining the situation, how you are sorry, that it's been fixed and that you hope they enjoy the meal. If they don't like that then there was never anything you could do
It doesn’t depend on pap results. It depends on patient preference and insurance coverage. The recommendation is to do pap for 21-29 years of age and pap with HPV at 30+ through 65. But again, if a 66+ year old wants a pap, that is up to them.
Yes, this. Complaining that she wants it to be all about her when he only wants it to be all about him. Going in dry hurts her but feels good for him so that is somehow all “me me me” for her not wanting sex to hurt. This man is an abusive loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
Yeah maybe I’m overthinking idk. I know it’s normal for your friends to mix with your girlfriend and what not but just thought this seemed so extreme. Pretty sure my friend talks to her more than me now haha
If you trust that you're honest with each other, how would a conversation go if he wanted to hang out with a female friend and he told you that she was just a platonic friend? Would you believe him? Would he believe you if you told him that your male friend was just a friend?
“Azul, I do trust my partner. It's them other people I don't trust.”
As long as you trust your partner, other people's intentions do not matter. Because your partner will keep boundaries in check one way or another.
Tea. Are you going to tell her husband, do you think?
have absolutely no friends or family here.
That doesn't matter. Your family and friends most likely have been waiting for you to reach out for yeras.
I’ve started planning to leave before but I can’t bring myself to. I want my kids to have both parents and I just want my nice, caring husband.
Google “the cycle of abuse”, you're still in the midst of it.
Your kids suffer from being with their dad. Do you want them to normalise the abuse? Do you want them to resent you for staying? Do you want them to seek out similar partners like your spouse? He's toxic, he's not nice, he's not caring.
you're young. she's young. You are both learning what exactly you want/need. If you have a bad taste now, it's not suddenly going to get better. Cut bait now and look elsewhere.
You buy whatever medication they need to treat it (I imagine there's a cream or something to treat the bites? Never really had a flea issue despite owning animals all my life) and make some cookies or lasagna or whatever it is you have a good recipe for that yields a lot. You leave both on the porch with a note explaining the situation, how you are sorry, that it's been fixed and that you hope they enjoy the meal. If they don't like that then there was never anything you could do
It doesn’t depend on pap results. It depends on patient preference and insurance coverage. The recommendation is to do pap for 21-29 years of age and pap with HPV at 30+ through 65. But again, if a 66+ year old wants a pap, that is up to them.