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karlota-geynner Public Chat Channel
Date: November 7, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
karlota-geynner Public Chat Channel
Well,he lied to you every day so what makes you think he will tell you the truth now?
Has your girlfriend gone to therapy for the abuse of her ex boyfriend? Regardless if she did or didn’t, maybe she needs to talk to a professional about that AND your response to the burglary. For you it came from being afraid, violated, and wanting to protect you and your girlfriend. I said violated because that’s what it just MUST feel like to have people invade your safe haven, your home. Maybe even offer that you will talk to someone as well, since the blacking out thing is a little concerning. There’s a big difference between protecting yourself and loved one compared to an abusive partner. No matter what happens here, I’m sorry you went through this it had to be scary and I wish you the best of luck.
You've got every right to be upset that she lied to you. Especially if her motivation was because she just assumed you'd be a knuckle dragging neanderthal about it. So maybe you could tell her that her reasons for lying paint you in a pretty bad light and try to find out why she assumed you'd be upset about this. You and she weren't even exclusive at that point so obviously there was no reason to not tell you the truth. This is important because if you do give off some vibe of being unreasonable about such things it's something you'll want to work on.
Not cheating in any of my relationship, but cheating is really something that is based on the rules in your relationship.
I doubt you'll get a lot of insight but if you want to get a sense of what he believes [or wants to present] as his motivation you can just ask him.
'I have the screenshots of you on tinder. This is not a discussion or debate on whether they are legitimate. We are accepting them as fact. This discussion is why you are on there and I want an explanation from you directly as to why you chose this course of action' sort of thing.
Agree. You are a void.