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Date: December 8, 2022
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Hey im 23(f) and I understand where you're coming from. You are taking the right steps and they are scary as hell. I just recently have been in the process of filing a protective order about my ex after he verbally and harassed me. Honestly its been easy going so far as we dont live together and don't have pets but the final court comes this week. Once is enough. Im glas she believed you.
I understand being scared for your life and wanting to move despite the protective order. I feel that everyday. Knowing they can't doesn't mean they won't. I reccomend cameras. I got set up with a really incredible non profit domestic violence center near me that has offered me an attorney, counseling, and even shelter, along with the cameras to feel safe.
Please don't be scared to reach out to the resources near you. They were the only ones there for me and being semi anonymous made me feel safe.
If she likes him back the same way, she'll say “Hooray! Guess what, I feel the same way about you! Let's date!”
If she doesn't like him back the same way, she'll think “Ew, awkward. I don't want to hurt his feelings and I'd still like to be friends with him, but I don't want to lead him on either.” And she'll likely say something like she's not interested in dating right now, or she likes your friendship just the way it is.
If she didn't say much of anything, it's safe to assume she doesn't feel the same way but she hasn't figured out a way to let you down gently.
Eh, I think it's more concerning how many people fake stories. The world doesn't need more cynics.
Jeez then break up. You're obviously not mature enough to date and you obviously don't trust him. Just end the relationship and don't date until you get some serious therapy for your insecurities.
To use a popular buzzword from here, your advice is toxic. You made wild assumptions about the GF and how she would react to a conversation and you jumped straight to “You need you break up”, based on a couple paragraphs about a woman doing things without her BF.
Adult relationships are more complex than that, we are all the hero of our own story and this often comes out when telling our side of the story when the other parties aren’t around.
Like I said above, the sister example is a matter of the GF not bailing on plans at the last minute because her BF decided he wanted to go to dinner, that’s normal.
It sounds to me, like op is needy and wants to be with her 24/7 and she wants a more rounded social life. Neither is wrong, but the GF isn’t a villain for having a social life out side her man.
If OP finds himself wanting to restrict her time with friends and family he needs to rethink his position. if the GF was posting here about it, you all would say he’s abusive and she’s in danger.
I don’t mean this as an insult, but I’m guessing you are also a young man that lives at home and doesn’t have a social life outside of your partner, if you have one. Your thought process is one of a person that’s never navigated feeling like this before, at least successfully.
And since you asked, my partner is the absolute center of my life and Vice versa, but I would never want to restrict her expanding out. I’m happy for her if she goes out with friends. If she works late I’m not mad she chose work over spending time with me, I’m glad she’s advancing her career.
Compersion is a concept often talked about in the Polly community. The opposite of jealousy, it’s being to see your partner happy even if that happiness doesn’t stem from you.
But you understand that ABC hooked up with you while you were drunk knowing you are in a long-term relationship. What makes you think she didn't do this before with other men? And if she really was pregnant, what makes you think it was yours? It wasn't her first time. She's obviously not as conservative as she led you to believe.
We didn’t have a plan to save but we don’t work outside of summers, so most of it should’ve been reserved for living expenses/tuition.
He will have to take out loans for school now as well, which kind of means 3 years of working is thrown away