I am not sure I find him all that attractive after this. It feels like I’m mothering someone’s child.
That's fine, so you know you need to end the relationship. You just want different things which is totally fine. Also, you're not selfish for wanting to spend time with your SO, he is being selfish by prioritizing his gaming release over his relationship. Which is another indicator that the relationship should end. Video games have likely been his stress release for a long time, so you have to be realistic when it comes to expecting someone to change. If you expect him to do a complete 180 that's just never going to happen.
Social media aside – does he go out of his way to make you happy in life? If so, he's spending energy doing that, which is what really matters.
Truly happy couples don't post much on social media because they're busy living their life and being happy. Social media doesn't define your relationship. Stop it.
Agreed. I honestly think he should be home with her and they should both hold off until after the birth and everything is settled. She's pregnant. This time is really supposed to be about supporting her. Not indulging in some childish party.
please please break up with her, you are still very young
you deserve sex my friend
Ask her the questions and then put it behind you. If not then it will only eat you up n possibly cause you to resent her
I tried that approach. My husband escalated from porn to hookers. I would not advise this course of action.
He says and does awful things to me consistently, but when i say something once it’s considered emotional abuse? I don’t get it.
I am not sure I find him all that attractive after this. It feels like I’m mothering someone’s child.
That's fine, so you know you need to end the relationship. You just want different things which is totally fine. Also, you're not selfish for wanting to spend time with your SO, he is being selfish by prioritizing his gaming release over his relationship. Which is another indicator that the relationship should end. Video games have likely been his stress release for a long time, so you have to be realistic when it comes to expecting someone to change. If you expect him to do a complete 180 that's just never going to happen.
Social media aside – does he go out of his way to make you happy in life? If so, he's spending energy doing that, which is what really matters.
Truly happy couples don't post much on social media because they're busy living their life and being happy. Social media doesn't define your relationship. Stop it.
Hm.
Sounds like it may not be yours. Which is the real reason she's ignoring the fact she's pregnant.
I'd get a DNA test if I were you. Upon birth of the child.
Agreed. I honestly think he should be home with her and they should both hold off until after the birth and everything is settled. She's pregnant. This time is really supposed to be about supporting her. Not indulging in some childish party.
NTA
You asked him privately. He's the one who made a scene.
Why did he make a scene? Because he was high on coke.
You're a child diddler.
Well, you wanted her to lose weight and now she's lost a tonne of it by kicking your ass to the curb. Absolute hero of a woman.