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Date: October 23, 2022
Could be a prank from a sibling, is it an amount of glitter that a person could wear? If so how would it end up in a pile. Sounds like someone was ducking with him or maybe you.
Could be a prank from a sibling, is it an amount of glitter that a person could wear? If so how would it end up in a pile. Sounds like someone was ducking with him or maybe you.
She only confessed to the BJ after she 'locked him up' with the pregnancy, so she's saving the 'we fucked' confession for after the marriage ceremony.
This is it. For people who are not caring/ empathetic by default, they can change when a person they love/want to be with has no tolerance for their bullshit and sort of demands change.
My ex was like this. He only changed and started to show compassion once I made it abundantly clear that his current nonchalant selfish ways of being was a dealbreaker. And if he didn't smarten up and start treating me with the same level of consideration that I showed him I'd be out.
Putting my foot down and not enabling him/ accepting his excuses was key. And then he finally came around and had an awakening about how empathy breeds connection and actually feels good. Idk if that change stuck, but it is possible (however, not something to bet on as it's definitely not a given).
He blacked out and beat someone to a pulp. That would terrify me too – that he blacked out and was violent. I would never feel safe with him again.
I am a survivor, though, so it's not unbiased, same as gf.
My man.
So you leave out something in the comments that really should be in your OP: that you sketched these from IG.
So here's the issue, as I see it: there are 2 ways this could definitely come off as “creepy stalker” rather than “admirer from afar”. 1 – the number of drawings. You mention in the comments it's 12 or so – and while that's not ridiculous for a year – you have to remember it's been a year for you, but she doesn't know anything about that year of time. For her, it begins the second you confess and give her 1 – x drawings.
Put yourself in her place: out of the blue a random person walks up to you, confesses romantic feelings, and hands you a stack of drawings they have made from your IG.
And number 2 – the length of time. I alluded to it in the previous section, but it's really important to remember that it has only been going on a year for you and you only. The fact that you have a stack of drawings and have apparently liked her for a year isn't going to be seen like a romance novel – “pining away for your lady love, while working out your feelings on the canvas”. It's going to be seen like “wow. liked me for a year and hasn't ever said anything? Welp. so much for self-confidence.” – and lack of confidence is a one way ticket to “no thanks” town.
So actual advice:
I would shelve the drawings for now. And instead of “telling her how [you] feel” – just ask her out on a date, my man. And be specific about 2 things: that it is a date – like – don't say “wanna hang out?” – that's ambiguous. So make sure you use the word “date”. The other thing to be specific about: place and time. In other words “wanna hang out sometime?” – absolute worst-case scenario – you didn't make it clear it's a date, OR mention a specific date and time.
Instead – pick an art show coming up, or whatever event you think y'all would both be into, and ask her to go with you, as a date.
Then if you wind up dating her, you can find a way to introduce the drawing to her in whatever way works within the context of your relationship.
But seriously – I was like you when I was your age, and even up into my late 20s. Big, sweeping emotional gestures that went over like lead balloons, and only taught me that I would have had a much better shit if I had just asked her out, ya know?
Since I made those mistakes for you – no need to make them on your own. 😉
Good luck, my man.
How convenient
You are dating a loser. Why doesn’t he have a job, and even moreso, why TF are you applying for jobs for him?!? He 26 damn years old! God damn, stop enabling leeches like him.
Yes, as we meet only once a week.
Absolutely!!
Wow, that sounds pretty organized!
I can manage without the reminders, but I really get tired of knowing what needs to be done when I need to ask him, or state something for him to otherwise clue in to the same thing. Ideally, if he can see that “only him” tasks are hanging out in the “Todo” area for a few weeks or months, he will feel more accountable and do things.
This won’t help OP but maybe the dude doesn’t want a relationship with her, not vice versa.
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I thought that you would have. You're a great person and a great friend.
Show her the texts and tell her he sucks and isn't worth her tears. Then have a girl's night.
You should. And don't listen to that other guy – you don't need to dump her. First of all you were both drunk. Second, the conversation was literally about “intimacy, past relationships, the future, and sex”
You're having a conversation about past sexual experiences – it might come up! Women tend to mention things like this to bfs without realizing how much it might affect them. That's because women don't care about dick size as much, but guys get very insecure about it.
Be open and honest with her about how you feel. She made a mistake and she immediately felt bad. It'll be ok. She chose you buddy don't forget that 🙂
My husband grew up in a family where the only way that you communicated with each other was with yelling. I grew up being told that “conversations need to be calm where everyone can listen to each other. Once you calm down we can talk”. As you can imagine this caused some issues when we needed to talk about issues. Think about what you want your kids seeing in a healthily relationship. Do you want them seeing their dad berated and hit and their mom being yelled at? If not you need to either start walking away during the fights so you both can calm down or maybe it’s time to figure out if compare ting is better
Autism is a really poor excuse to sit on people. Especially since the usual clinical presentation is an aversion to touch. I’ve never evaluated an autistic person that can’t control sitting on people. But I guess there’s always a first for everything lol.
When I was an RN, the work wife/work husband is a common theme, and 50% of the time it dances the fine line of emotional cheating. While it typically is just someone you can heavily rely on, there is a closeness that develops and could be misconstrued by your partner.
That all being said, while I don’t necessarily agree with you forcing him to end a friendship cold turkey, especially when he was willing to end it but on his terms. You have definitely laid a firm groundwork for resentment in your relationship, and while things may seem okay at this point, it has a potential to fester, just like your feelings about his friendship did. His response to the death of this friendship is what is concerning to me, if you are his partner and priority, why does he care about keeping someone that is a source for contention around. Taking into consideration that he openly admitted his attraction to her, when he did that he should’ve realized at that point a boundary was crossed and cut her off at that point instead of allowing her to be a reoccurring theme in your relationship.
Now for you. It seems like you like to make a lot of excuses for your poor behavior. If you aren’t in therapy, I strongly recommend you seek it.