First, NO, “fundamental values” do not change overnight. OP you are just starting your life. This was a good lesson in recognizing your own personal red flags. Ultimately the decision whether you go back is yours and yours alone. However, I want to tell you, as a woman who was in an abusive relationship at your age, this is a cycle of abuse.
Lastly, you are not to blame for his emotional or mental state. Hopefully, you have someone in your life who can help you recognize when he is being manipulative.
This is the most ridiculous reddit post I've ever come across
First, NO, “fundamental values” do not change overnight. OP you are just starting your life. This was a good lesson in recognizing your own personal red flags. Ultimately the decision whether you go back is yours and yours alone. However, I want to tell you, as a woman who was in an abusive relationship at your age, this is a cycle of abuse.
Lastly, you are not to blame for his emotional or mental state. Hopefully, you have someone in your life who can help you recognize when he is being manipulative.