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Lush Toy In! Super Bowl Day!
Date: February 12, 2023
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Lush Toy In! Super Bowl Day!
Can I please add that its not that I never say please and thank you, I just don't always say it? Last night even though I knew I would only get a nod I said thank you for dinner, it was really good, like always. I was trying to break the ice a bit but I do try to thank her for dinner. I probably do it at least once a week. I also thanked her when I got home that same day because I noticed the entire place was cleaned top to bottom and smelled great and laundry was washed, I just had to fold them. So I thanked her for that too.
This gets more and more true each day, too. Hope this guy wises up. She won’t be off the market long if he drives her away.
Yeah, I read it. Why would you jump from doesn't want to use a condom as a secondary method of birth control to someone who could rape his wife? Not every man who doesn't get his way ends up resorting to raping his wife. Where did OP mention that her husband has violent tendencies?
4 months isn't really that long of a time to be together. She probably just want to play around some more.
4 months isn't really that long of a time to be together. She probably just want to play around some more.
4 months isn't really that long of a time to be together. She probably just want to play around some more.
ur completely right, thanks
ur completely right, thanks
ur completely right, thanks
Because its hurtful, especially since she will have experienced transphobia in her life already, she cant change being a trans woman, the truth is he isnt romantically interested in her, the reason why he isnt isnt important and in this case coukd be very hurtful
Off course he also runs the risk that if he does say its because she is a trans woman that he will be labeled a transphobe himself, because there is a group that saying no to someone because they are trans is actually transphobia (i dont agree with that myself)
Your bf has ego problems. He seems obsessed by the idea that his Co workers should respect him because he 'sticks it to the man', has been clearly signalling to his boss that he isn't mananement material because he's concerned about being seen not to be a suck up, and is now surprised that his boss, who had previously considered him a good employee and attempted to promote his career through these opportunities and awards, is now hearing his message loud and clear, and removing his support for the promotion after bf publically embarrassed him
Like, his boss publically recognised ops efforts, and simply had that thrown back in his face, and for what? His colleagues are unlikely to view his actions with anything other than bafflement.
Your bf is delusional op, and he needs help. His actions are self sabotaging and destructive. Don't let him drag you down too.
No I definitely agree, that thinking isn’t normal. I am self aware , i wouldn’t have wrote my flaws if i hadn’t come to accept them. So no i’d never act on anything. I don’t act on things that aren’t certain and i hate making people uncomfortable. It’s all in my head.
Tell him he should go down on you anytime of the month then regardless of what’s going on. Dude seems like a great party guest.
Look, i was in an abusive relationship long time ago and now still, after years and years and in a loving marriage, it eases my mind when i can close and shut a door behind me. It gives me a feeling of control, i ger to decide who will enter my space. Ask her if it makes her feel safe or in control and if she says yes, leave her be.
Nothing i trust her, what i think i haven't formulated well in my post is that i am the one thats not comfortable with seeing her dancing sexually with someone else, and the irony is that she implied she wouldn't be ok with me doing the same…
Lol.
I would say here that you putting this effort to find out is not to save the relationship, but rather so you stop torturing yourself.
Even if you break up, you probably won't get closure because you won't know for sure if she did or didn't cheat.
You likely have some PTSD from the first cheating incident and you might need to see a therapist.
My view is a bit different to others – her behaviour is out of line and your partner has been open with you. I think you should meet with Kate and firmly (and kindly) explain how her behaviour is affecting you and Dec. You do have some jealousy towards her and some insecurity which is yours to deal with, but her behaviour also needs addressing. It's quite possible she is desperate for attention and affirmation and is misdirecting it.
She needs to cut it out and to do that she needs to understand the impact on you and Dec.
Hope you can nail it asap. Updateme!
You need therapy. He sounds like a narcissist and this sounds like a classic narcissist plus fawning (you) combo. You should research the fawn response in regards to narcissism.
And women wonder why most men won’t even date single moms
You have zero ability to reprimand them (notice how it’s HER kid yet he almost certainly has a financial interest) and him not getting along with the kid is immediate grounds for divorce ever though he’s done nothing majorly wrong
Step dad is lose/lose
Agreed. It’s biting but not rude, gets the point across, and leaves room for the other folks to do a mea culpa without it being a huge awkward thing.