She knows how i felt about it and said shes sorry But now she asks to spend an afternoon – she also asked me if im okay, she didnt just say shes gonna do it
No, you are not. But he definitely is. It's unreasonable to demand living with them when you can live right next to them. I have a feeling there's something more to this and everything he says is an excuse. It's not any different when you would be in a bigger house. I don't know why but that's how I see it. For me personally it would be a hill to die on, I also need my place I can feel comfortable in and do whatever I want.
So umm, you're currently pregnant?
She knows how i felt about it and said shes sorry But now she asks to spend an afternoon – she also asked me if im okay, she didnt just say shes gonna do it
No, you are not. But he definitely is. It's unreasonable to demand living with them when you can live right next to them. I have a feeling there's something more to this and everything he says is an excuse. It's not any different when you would be in a bigger house. I don't know why but that's how I see it. For me personally it would be a hill to die on, I also need my place I can feel comfortable in and do whatever I want.
And believe me, he’s going to either leave eventually, or this could ramp up into emotional abuse if it isn’t already