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If everyone here is misunderstanding you, then again….. you are the issue.
Figure it out.
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An incompatibility is a difference that can't be compromised on and would damage the relationship or the people involved in it.
My SO loves spicy food, and I have a mild capsaicin allergy so I can't eat it. That's fine, it's just a different opinion/preference. He puts seasonings or sauces on food after it's made or in a portion specific for him. The fact that he still eats spicy food even though I can't eat it is not a problem because we have found a way to compromise and make it work for both of us.
On the other hand, if one of us had a gluten allergy and the other continued to eat glutenous foods that contaminated our kitchen and living space, that would be an incompatibility because one of us is unwilling to make that compromise for the other person.
There are a lot of incompatibilities more consequential than that one, whether you want children, lifestyle, etc, but they often come down to the individual people and what you're willing and able to compromise on. Something that makes one couple incompatible may work for another couple. For example, religion is often an incompatibility issue, but I know a couple in which one person is atheist and the other goes to church every Sunday. Neither of them want children, so what to raise them as isn't an issue to consider, and they've figured out ways to compromise on other aspects that work for them. Personally, I cannot see myself in that situation, but it doesn't matter because it's not my relationship.
What I'm getting at is that the specific compromises and incompatibilities in your relationship will be unique to you and your girlfriend. Like your girlfriend, I do think most things can be compromised on if both people are willing to change for the other, with the disclaimer that no one is obligated to change for anybody else and that in itself may be an incompatibility. Just depends on what you prioritize. Is being with the person you love worth putting up with her four large dogs (my sister's poor fiance who grew up with cats), or is the idea that she'd watch you leave before getting rid of the dogs a deal breaker for you? There are always multiple perspectives and figuring out whether your differences still make you compatible comes down to conversations about what you prioritize for yourselves and if that's still possible given the circumstance.
Its tiring for real, idk why im still here my dad passed before she broke up with me, but she come to my house and stay sith me like 2 months I feel supported
What are you talking about forcing him into anything? We're talking about whether or not he strung her long and I believe he did
I will do this
Yeah….. If I were a betting man, my money would be on him cheating
The fact that you are calling “pathetic” the action of breaking the silence for communications sake, yes, it sounds like you don’t value the relationship.
I get that you might be exhausted from this back and forth, but you obviously partake in it.
Break up or go to couples therapy so you guys can learn how to communicate instead of making assumptions about each others feelings. You’re in your thirties, stop acting like a teenager.
I havent worked out in a long time and i use to all the time so you could be onto something here.
You seem to operate under the idea that this juggernaut of selfish impulsivity will not only appreciate the freedom you give her but will closely observe the stated and assumed boundaries of it.
Both are likely incorrect. The more you offer, the more will be expected and taken where you present token resistance.
Understand that the frenzy of activity and attachment for a 2 week random blows your supposed flexibly and structured ‘relationship’ out of the water.
You dont have one. You have words and self reassurance. This is no more real than writing a gazillionty-five dollars on a piece of paper and trying to buy Mozambique with it. It is a construct of your hope and imagination only, no doubt encouraged by the person that seems to make decisions based on a wheel o bullshit spin. Your belief and capitulations to keep the fiction making sense to you are as real as it gets.
Let her of as she pleases and seek out someone you do not have to incessantly five way to, that cares for you enough to compromise or shocker – not have their way at all times and provoke mental episodes to browbeat you to meek acceptance.
yeah same city. and it’s been a day and I’ve left her on read (conversation ended nicely). but kind of have this intuition that she just doesn’t want anything more than just friends and just stick if I should pursue or not ??