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deepthroat [Multi Goal]
Date: November 5, 2022
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deepthroat [Multi Goal]
Gotta do the hot thing and tell him this friendship isn’t working for you. Not much else to say. You don’t owe it to someone to be friends with them or anything else. Ghosting is rather immature though.
Personally, I think you're making it harder on your gf. I don't know what kind of habits she has or what led to her gaining. But depression is a big trigger, and stress will keep you from losing.
She knows she's gained weight. I assure you the mirror hasn't been lying to her. She's tried to go to the gym, but apparently, you can't go without commenting on her performance or watching? I know if someone is monitoring me, it makes me feel very judged and controlled. Even if it's not the case. I have trouble working out with other people around because it makes me feel more insecure.
You say you've brought it up, but how often? How did you start the conversation? You've said you used the wrong words. So for her, it probably doesn't look like you're worried about her health, just her looks. Cue more depression. You brought it up often enough for her to lose her patience with it. And there's more stress. She's not going to be able to lose weight if you are always monitoring her and judging.
The fact that she went to the gym with you multiple times means she wants to lose weight. But she doesn't want to go with you, because you're making her feel worse.
You want to support her in weight loss, then I suggest you back off. Maybe take over cooking so the menu has more healthy choices, while respecting if she doesn't like the food, and working together to find something she does like. Sign her up for an all womens gym, and make no comment on whether or not she attends or how often.
If you back away and stop adding stress and adding to her insecurities, maybe her depression would lessen, and she'll feel like she can actually succeed.
May I ask what your dx is ? Is it something that can be sexually transmitted? Ask as someone who has been dealing with some serious health co Dorian’s of my own
Honestly, I get it.
Once you two started living together he very quickly realized it wasn't working.
You have a bunch of quirky habits, many of which seem to border on hoarding.
And based on your description, you have enough bags of animal fur kept in your drawers that you have to seperate them by name.
None of these things by themselves are a crazy issue, but they've stacked up and now he probably thinks you're potentially unhinged. Maybe he's watched to many Netflix serial killer documentaries.
What's more interesting to me is that you don't seem to realize how odd you might come off, even in this post. I'm not judging you or anything, but maybe you're lacking a bit in the social skills department, cause even the way you worded this post doesn't necessarily paint you in the best light.
You should probably prepare for him to officially break things off, I don't think he sees the two of you working out.
Take the W and move on with your life.
When my wife was pregnant with our first daughter, she wouldn’t kiss me either for the same reasons. My solution was to quit smoking.
You should have to force him. He should hear you saying it’s an issue and then he should take care of it. That’s why I say he doesn’t support you. You already told him how you feel and he did nothing about it.
Real talk, there are two things you can do here: either accept that this is what your relationship is going to be like, and that sex isnt something that will happen often, or you break up. Thats it. If you want to know what your future looks like, you can take a peek at r/DeadBedrooms. Sexual incompatibility is a thing, and it will fuck up your relationship.
I don’t think it would of mattered what your answer was. She created this in her own head.
She sounds unhinged.
Has anyone else who's gotten it in teh US had their insurance actually pay for it? I was floored when I got a bill for $350 for one dose, and still had to go back for two more. I haven't finished my series in large part because it was so fucking expensive.