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Date: December 21, 2022
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Girl, break up with him. He doesn't care about your feelings or you as a person, he doesn't respect your boundaries and prioritizes his “””needs”””” over you. That's more than enough to stop talking to him. To him you're a mere sex doll and that's so fucked up I want to throw up, I can't imagine what is like to experience that. I'm so sorry for you, you opened your heart to one awful human being. I'm so mad people like him even exists.
I wholeheartedly agree. It's like reading through my diary, and also listening in to my conversations at the same time. It would be a huge breach of privacy to me.
my wife has known about my account since i made it.
No she is too beautiful to be surpassed in beauty. Trust me bro. Besides I love her because she seems like a nice lady since she always speaks kindly to her parents on her Facebook. I have observed her carefully and she seems perfectly mixed with youthfulness and maturity ❤️
He’s a heartless asshole you should break up with immediately. There is nothing redeemable about his actions.
If you still want contact and some connection with your ex as if that would indicate you are worth her time to talk to, then you have an ego problem. You need her approval in some way to feel good about yourself when in fact, you need to find ways to feel good about yourself regardless of how others feel about you. Or you will always be dependent on others for your self esteem.
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The way I see it is, the commute is a common expense so that you can both provide for the household and that if you didn’t work at home you could both be equally sharing the cost of both of your commutes so that one didn’t unfairly share the burden.
However, I would probably say that expense could be shared 50/50.
If one of you lost your job and had to go in a job hunt who would be paying for the gas? Just curious.
Exactly! I had the odd day of WFH during lockdown and the ONLY downside is feeling bored or struggling to motivate yourself, but let's be honest, most office-workers would of course choose to WFH in a heartbeat! No work poops for me!
Then that just proves his immaturity….Just be direct and say you’re done
You may be right. Thank you for pointing that out. Idk if I'm simply jealous or just can't understand her fixation towards kpop.
My now husband of over 14 years (21 together) was exactly like this. I just gave up on the idea we would ever get married and got pregnant (he agreed he wanted kids). We bought a house and everything too. Then when I was about 7 months pregnant, he told me he had an early Christmas gift for me (it was a week before Xmas). Turns out it was a calendar and when I flipped to that day, it said happy anniversary. He was on one knee. When he asked me to marry him and I said yes, he then told me that I needed to get ready because the wedding was in 2 hours. He had already set everything up. It was awesome. We told our families by making them watch a YouTube video. One year later, we had a wedding reenactment and reception for our anniversary.
Thank you! I feel insecure because of offhand remarks like “I'm going through too many guys” from my mother–I've only(?) dated two other guys from the beginning of HS, so like five years ago, but nobody around me really has which makes me feel like I'd cause drama or something even though the vapid boy-crazy girl stereotype is firstly probably degrading to women and secondly something I feel I couldn't be further from. Thanks again for the reassurance.
You just break up. “This isn’t working for me anymore. Good luck”
Internet mom here. I’m going to be blunt. You are with a man with no goals, no aspirations and no friends. You’re hoping he’s going to change, right? Get a job, contribute etc. He won’t because he doesn’t need to. He has you. I’m not concerned about the other guy or what you said. I am concerned that you have chosen a mentally ill man who is not going to address his depression. Do you want kids? If so, don’t do it with your boyfriend. He can’t be what you would want a child to grow into. I don’t understand why you have chosen this man. I totally understand why you’d have a crush on someone who is the exact opposite. Just think about it.
The guy admitted to having feelings for her. The guy she’s dating seems pretty rational in wanting her to distance herself from the other guy. Chances are the first dude is sticking around in hopes of getting with her, it’s not a mystery
My grandma did this for us when playing games. I miss her very much.
Yes, most likely. Karma is only a bitch if you are.
This is not something Reddit can help you with. You need to see a therapist and work through what you're feeling, it seems like there is more than just his ex dying. You're not a terrible person but you are a troubled one, and you need proper help.
I got that she's pregnant, oddly enough. The advice for him is to try and get custody so the child is properly taken care of. The kid won't be with her. Sinple as that.
Not immediately texting you isn’t ‘pulling away’.
Boulder or Montana (but it’s a big state so pick a location). Stay away from Boise, it sucks. If you want diversity of population and he wants mountains it may be hard to find a compromise spot. Maybe LA or somewhere in northern New Mexico
I think you might need a ultimatum to snap him out of it. He can't be like this whenever something stressful occurs, and he's harming your health. Him thinking he knows better than experts is also pretty concerning
I mean, it was an unwanted sexual advance, soooo……
There's a major artery there. I'd suspect he cut off the blood flow more than your breathing. I'd take a break from this for a while and come back to it in a few weeks. I'm sure he's scared. He's got a right to be, but you two can get passed this.
Ok, honestly the age gap at the current age you both are in will raise eyebrows. There are just too many stories of weirdos manipulating younger women. Having said that – it might also work out great. It really depends on the individuals. Have you talked to your parents about him at all?
Ultimatum time
Where did you found gem like this?
Bisexual is more widely accepted as meaning “attracted to genders like mine and not like mine.” It has always included trans and non-binary people.
This is so new that you shouldn’t have to be working on it. I think that he’s probably not the one.
By your comments you sound unhinged and you don't trust him at all, just breakup already. By the way, nothing you said is a red flag, they sound like friends.
we are in the same friend group and have mutual friends so blocking might get messy
Dude you’re so entitled. You told her how you felt and she wasn’t interested. That was your opportunity to accept it and back off but instead you started buying her gifts despite her telling you she doesn’t like it.
I don’t know why you feel so entitled to her attention/affection/sex when she’s made it clear she doesn’t feel the same way.
She’s slept with someone else? Boo hoo, get over it. It’s nothing to do with you.
Tell him what you told us, and that you are growing apart.
Remember all the good
But the future seems worse, so it seems you want different things. Break it cleanly. You don’t have to keep paying for shit.
And don't forget, whole his family is thinking he lives with a roommate, so yeah, i think “he just needs a little bit distance, but still working on his rs… with his “ex” too.
Nope. I'm just saying one can understand what people think by their actions, that's it. And her actions clearly show that she had more confidende in other people. What's weird is that, even tho I described what I have done for her, you come saying this isn't a big deal.
I’d leave the second he mentioned wanting another woman
Unless you want the rest of your life to be like this, just dump him. You communicated clearly. He chose to ignore you. Not even to ignore you but to actively do things to sabotage your special day. Have a boundary in future relationships – if you are not made to feel special and cherished by your boyfriend (assuming you’ve been exclusive for 3 plus months) on your birthday and at Christmas then automatic dump. You do not need someone that nasty and selfish in your life.
You are absolutely in the wrong. How bizarre!
it sounds to me like that’s exactly what the original comment was saying, though?
It’s impossible for anyone on here to tell you what to do.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Some questions I think you could think about:
Do you ever want kids? Would you consider ending this relationship if it weren’t for the pregnancy? Are you financially able to take care of yourself and a child if you did need to leave him? Is there anyone who would help you that you’d want to accept help from? How do you feel? What do you want, now, in a year, in 5 years?