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Date: October 4, 2022
There's a toxic way fuckin ghost her.
If you knew how to read you'd know she wasn't aware at the time and only found out after.
It sounds like you and your boyfriend are two different people with different approaches to life. That's not at all a bad thing, but if you suspect it means that you also have different expectations of your shared future, then that's something you need to sit down and talk about.
Life is generally unpredictable and you are bound to encounter some sort of trouble somewhere down the line no matter what. Right now, you worry that the trouble will be your boyfriend's business, but what if it will be you who loses your job? I'm not saying your concerns aren't valid, but I think it's much more important to discuss if and how you will handle trouble together when you encounter it than to think about who may or may not “cause” the trouble.
I'm so happy I found someone that give her a nice answer. I agree completly.
She's cheatin, why else would she get defensive and not want to talk about it? Ask her who she's been snapping while you're at it. I'll bet all the money in my piggy bank she's sending nudes to dudes.
Don’t make a big deal out of this, half the post on here are about one or other partner losing interest in sex, if you two still have that heat goin on after 6mnths it’s a good thing
I on-line in the Boston area. That’s like booking a flight to Buffalo and saying we’re close enough.
You also chose a lifestyle that doesn’t allow them to have any control over yours. That also rubs them the wrong way. They can only make rude comments.
Your wife and you are happy. Loving parents just want to ensure their children are happy. Their is something wrong with them.
Women can get dates with random people fairly easy and they often do it to feel wanted since they feel unwanted being broken up with. Then to show it off for you to see is icing on the cake for her. Remove her from social medias and go do things you enjoy. Maybe explore some new hobbies and interests.
I think rebooting isn’t a viable option. I on-line with anxiety and compulsive overthinking. Even the most confident minded person would have trust issues after this, so I can’t even begin to picture a return to normality for us. I think it’s time to end the relationship for the sake of my mental health and to start the new year afresh. Thank you for all your advice.
I hope you read the part where I said he should never tell OR act upon his desires/crush for her.
How does a harassment lawsuit get started when my advice is to keep it to himself and in his head??
That's all I've been discussing this entire time
Just to clarify that comment, that isn't a common occurrence. It is something that happens rarely
If you live in civilised country you can go and do whatever you wabt with your bf without your parents approval. If you need them for money then lie to them you have broken up with your bf (explain situation to him not via message but talk as to not leave trace). When they trust you do your best to have relationship with your bf while keeping your ENTIRE family in the dark about this.
Don't feel bad about this deception. You deserve both to make your independent choices and to receive their support. It's them who are acting terribly up do what you must.
I’m sorry..:but I’d be mad too. Do you have any idea how painful those work things are? Unless he said you can have one, you shouldn’t assume
Acting like that at the age of 32 is a massive red flag. Avoid at all costs.
Thanks for your kind words.
she is clearly emotionally involved with him to let into her life like that
He told her that on their first meet in years so I kinda doubt the “emotional involvement” but I was thinking of telling her to go NC with him and tell his GF about his infidelities. Just wanted to hear someone else say it to confirm that it's not an overreaction to ask her to do this.
Sorry to have to say it, but I, for one, don't like and get a feeling of repulsion when it comes to tattoos… Maybe “ho” is a tough word, but a tattooed woman gives the vibe of being an easy target, at least. At last but not the least, if you care about your relationship with your bf, don't get a tattoo, simple as this. Good luck!
Sounds like nonconsensual kink. Both the power and the feet.
Best case you are happy, worst case you are dead. I don’t like those options personally but you do you.
Did she really miscarriage? Or is she using it as a cover for having an abortion? Trust issues? As in maybe it wasn't your child? I'm not sure how you could trust her after keeping that from you.
Not going to comment on this situation itself just provide some info that may be relevant.
Babies that are just learning to talk will typically call most women “mama” and most men “dada”. They don’t understand the true meaning of the word and that’s the best sense they can make of it at that age. Hell, sometimes they just call everyone dada. My daughter called me dada for almost a full year before she realized that I’m actually mama.
We were walking in Walmart one day and we were near the Nintendo switches and I said I had one once, he said what happened to it and I explained that my ex boyfriend got me one for Christmas. He was a abusive and I told my current bf about the things he did. He then said would u like it for Christmas and I said no don’t get me one and he showed up on Christmas with a Nintendo switch.
Sometimes the way he spells things or talks kinda just make me feel really turned off by him.
Recently I found out that he’s still on his dads car insurance and that really turned me off because he is financing his own car. I would of thought he’d be on his own insurance. I almost feel like his parents will always have a say in everything he does.
He never plans dates. When I go over to his house we go straight to his room and lay in bed and watch tv. We go out sometimes but it’s usually just dinner and then we’re back in his bed watching tv.
Recently I wanted him to come over because we on-line 35 minutes from each other, we both work full time so we only see each other on our weekends off. He told me he couldn’t come over last Friday because it was his grandmas birthday, so I said ok that’s fine. And then later Friday night he told me he was thinking of going to the bar with his friends.
Ok… What in the actual hell is wrong with the people around you…. Who tells a mother their child is ugly/deformed. Who tells anyone that in general. And jobs denying you based on looks??? Unless your applying to be the face of the company or a model… WTAF???
Now to what you actually asked… Looks do in fact play a factor for people especially for men who are physically driven people… That being said you don't want to be with someone who cares that much about looks… Because regardless of our starting point in looks, we all age, our bodies change, and we never look the way we did a year ago let alone 20-40 years ago. So someone who only wants the “pretty” girl usually is the one who cheats and leaves for the next “pretty” girl when the first ages out… SO YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHANCE.
What I think is happening is that a life time of comments and bullying on your appearance has effected your personality. I would be willing to say that you are the shy quiet type… Meaning you don't light up a room with your personality. And while your personality is most likely amazing, it is not outshining your looks. I don't know what you actually look like so you may not be as “ugly” as you have been made to feel/believe. I'm not saying you need to walk into a room and act like your the hottest thing to grace gods earth. But you may need to let your personality blind the visual if in fact you are not classically attractive. You would be shocked at how many “unequal” physical relationships you are (Think Jelly Roll (most people think he is not attractive) and Bunny (absolutely stunning woman to most people) who met and were married before money was a factor). Like people who truly have facial deformities (and I'm not invalidating you if you do) with men/women who are drop dead gorgeous. And typically they both have personalities that make everyone attracted to them.
Lastly YOU ARE SO YOUNG. It sounds like everyone you have been around has been a bunch of AH… You need to meet some QUALITY MEN and WOMEN… If this man you are interest in has shown any signs of interest go for it. But if he also shoots you down try to get in some different circles. While no one can be faulted for not getting in a relationship with you because that is there choice and valid; the ones who have made comments that it is purely about your looks are gross humans and you dodged a bullet.
It doesn't sound like either of you are ready to marry. You're disappointed and hurt that he won't express emotion in the way you think he should – before he's even had the chance to do it or not do it. Sorry but that's kind of immature.
He's a repeated cheater. Despite saying sorry and you forgiving him, he's a high risk for doing it again.
Perhaps you should consider premarital counseling to work things out
Stay in this relationship long enough and this dynamic will evolve into pretends to hit you during an argument, you react, he strikes you for your reaction. Blames the physical on you for “believing he was going to hit him and striking first”. Eventually the pretending stops and he's just striking you because “that's what you want anyway”.
I mean, are you over your ex? You only did that petty action because you're not over them / the situation. I think you need to evaluate whether or not you are truly moved on / healed from that relationship. Given that it's only been a month, I'd say to give it some more time – but it's up to you.
Didn’t you all agree that emergencies take precedence over scheduled events? Since when isn’t childbirth (your child) an emergency? Your wife has to undergo an emergency c-section without you for gods sake. As someone that had to go through 2 c-sections, I don’t think I’d be able to forgive my husband for not being there for me when I was so vulnerable.
Amanda’s grown as hell, maybe prioritize your wife for once (not to mention your newborn that needs you).