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For good lucky [642 tokens remaining]
Date: November 9, 2022
AmateurPub
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For good lucky [642 tokens remaining]
At the moment it’s just about making sure I never emotionally invest in someone ever again unless I’m certain about her as a potential long-term partner.
This is probably a good idea. It doesn't sound like this girl was very serious but you jumped into the deep end for her anyways. .
I’m now seriously thinking about finding ways to get into her face again. I know where she lives so it’s easy to show up at her door
I have to do something about it, and I know where she lives…
Don't do that. I get that you're hurting and thoughts of what you can do will surface, but you're a better person than that. The moment you start stalking, harassing, and showing up at this person's door is the moment you lose any sympathy for your situation.
I’m having a very difficult time forgiving it. What could I do?
Start healing. Someone hurt you and that sucks, but you are the only person who's behavior you can control. Many people will hurt you over your lifetime, you have to learn to move forward.
Write a letter to her and burn it, bury it, trash it, whatever. Give yourself the closure you need by getting it all out and ot relying on a response from her.
Immediately following that start working on yourself. Work out, eat well, sleep well, take care of your skin, start reading something meaningful. Do things that enhance your life.
You'll have a lot less energy to spend being frustrated by her if you've already used it on improving yourself.
Yeah, it’s definitely been a long time since I’ve had any type of crush on anyone. You’re right that it’s probably natural and I should move on. Any tips for moving on? I google it and pretty much just comes up with the same list on the top ten sites.
Sorry man, but I don’t believe her. The fact that she struggles being physically intimate with you leads me to believe she physically cheated.
You say she only wants to be at work and not be around your home. Is she still working with this guy? If so, has she said anything about plans to find a new job? How does she expect you two to move past this while she still works with this guy?
It doesn’t add up man. If I were you, I would continue to improve yourself and speak with a lawyer to make sure you’re in a good position for divorce.
To train you to seek his approval and validation and to be an object for his desire. Also to lower your self esteem and self worth
Yeah. It’s not fake. I wish it was. The house is 100% mine it would all go to me anyway
Right, but she refuses to work. I have paid EVERY bill for the last 2 years. She hasn’t provided at all since he’s been born, I have. But I see what you’re saying.
The post has been up for 3 hours and you’re clearly not reaching these hoards of people you’re targeting.
4 bloody months. I live in London, it’s be been wet and cold since September. We get sun for about 3 weeks during what is apparently Summer. We are currently going through a massive cost of living crisis where everything is absurdly expensive that even those on a good income are struggling to get by in the most expensive city in the UK. Our government is a shit show.
You’ve known this dude for 4 months. You probably barely know him, you’ll most likely regret it. But it’s your life. Do whatever you want.