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Hey Hey !! I’am Bella (, ´• ω •) .. I’am in a playful mood.. LOVENSE IS ON!!
Date: October 20, 2022
Hey Hey !! I’am Bella (, ´• ω •) .. I’am in a playful mood.. LOVENSE IS ON!!
so still talk to your sister. be straight ask her why she wouldn’t talk to you . for all you know it could be him taking advantage of your sisters situation!
I once broke up with a guy on Christmas morning – don’t waste another second of your life or his in an unhappy relationship. Waiting until after Christmas may produce an awkward but pleasant enough Christmas for him, but it will still be a tumultuous Christmas for you regardless of when you break it off.
There's something very off about this guy.
I could understand his initial reaction because you two are extremely young and haven't been together long at all. Having a baby in this situation really did not make sense for either of you. But everything after that and him continuing to call you the mother of his child after intensely pressuring you into an abortion is disturbing.
I don't think you'll ever be able to have a healthy relationship with him without resenting him. Imagine you get pregnant again down the line when you are actually ready, would you be excited or would you have this fear in the back of your mind that he would abandon you again? Could you ever really trust him to be there for you?
Wow you people always go to the scenario where the other part is an absolute douchebag without any kind of indication that they are. You're basing his whole image on one text message he sent.
What's to say he didn't have a psychosis and is delusion? What's to say a family member didn't die and he can't handle the sorrow? For fuck sake…
It's not necessarily the men themselves saying it, but a load of comments always suggest that the man leave his wife and file for full custody (half the time because she's so “lazy” staying at home to look after the kid and not working). I've known various men who are great dads and have split or full custody, but others just can't be bothered.
If she asks politely tell her “What happened when we weren't a couple is if no concern to you.” If she says she deserves to know tell her the same thing again.
She broke up with you. What happened during that time is not her business.
I personally don't get the idea if a “break”. You are just avoiding the problem and it will never get fixed
Why do you care? She is your EX.
the company required you to share a room with someone of the opposite gender or required you to share a room with same gender?
there is no way any legitimate company would even suggest colleagues of opposite genders share a room
Whenever it came to his emotions, he never said anything until we were at the point of ending things or after that. When I suggested the break he agreed, but later on (when he wanted to end things) I found that he didn't want to take a break even though I told him my needs weren't being met. I probably would've decided against it if we could've worked on a solution but he didn't tell me, so I didn't know. I did try to discuss him shutting me out, I told him all he did was talk to me when he was felt like it and how much it hurt but all he said was that he was sorry and it must've been frustrating. I tried to be understanding because he told me he trauma and found it difficult to open up about his feelings. That's why I thought giving him some space and time would help.
I've been trying to get back into my hobbies, hanging out with my family more, possibly getting a job much closer to home and will eventually be going back to school too! It's been slow progress but hopefully if I can get a new job closer to home I'll be able to get back into my hobbies more.
This entire situation has been very overwhelming these past few weeks if I'm being honest. A small part of me wants to wait it out and see if he'll actually visit but another part, the more rational part just wants to save myself the disappointment and end things. Either way I'll probably try to get into therapy since this has taken a larger toll on me than I originally thought. Honestly, thank you for the kind and genuine advice. I really do appreciate it!
Is it possible they just don’t find you attractive? Did you consider that? Also your lifestyles are incompatible
Sorry fam she belongs to the streets.
I need to know. What is the cleaning/chores arrangement? I feel like I already know the answer.
What about bills? I don't see whether who make more to be a distribution of load, but whether or not you're being taken advantage of by seeing the whole picture.
Lmao good luck in your relationships if you think playing tit for tat is a good way to go about things instead of calmly talking things through like an adult. Just because one person fucked up their delivery one time doesn’t mean you have to.
You don't have to be “civil” to people that hurt you. Just leave her on read or block her and if you end up in the same place in person, just say “No” and ignore them.
I don’t get it Why do so many men act like absolute buffoons when their wives are postpartum? It’s so cruel. So many of these posts.
My wife is incapacitated, she can’t do anything to me so I’m going to do whatever so want and I don’t care if it hurts her.
I don't really understand what you're saying, sorry – that I should've asked my boyfriend first? I did speak to him before I even thought about arranging anything, but I told him that chances are I'd have to arrange it for a Friday or Saturday (he works nearly every Fri and Sat because his bar is only open thurs-saturday) since it was most fair on everybody I wanted to invite. More people will be free at weekends, especially where I work
I question what kind of relationships this guy with people if he thinks being kinda friends with a fellow student is as good as it gets.
Well you do keep downplaying the severity of you cheating when you keep saying that you're not “a serial cheater”, as if that somehow makes anything better. You're still a cheater, full stop. Quit crying, because you got caught and everyone is telling you what a terrible person you are. Even your own family can see what a shitty excuse for a human being you are.
What is audio porn?
I don’t think he’s flirting back. And what I didn’t add was that I asked him to to speak to her outside of anything that’s an office setting. I think he enjoys it that’s what bothers me. And the fact that I told him to not mention her and still continues to do so really upsets me.
OP isn't selfish for not wanting to terminate a pregnancy she feels happy about. It's 100% her decision and “her body, her choice” goes both ways. You wouldn't shame a woman for choosing to abort an unwanted pregnancy, so shaming somebody for deciding to keep hers is really not okay and you know that. What are you hoping to accomplish here?
Pregnant people get to decide what's best for them in regards to becoming a parent and yeah, it's a sucky situation if two people aren't in agreement over having a child but that's why responsible sex practices should be taken more seriously by men who choose to have sex with afab women. Nobody should be pressuring anyone to have an abortion against their will. That's sick. Men who decide to have sex with young women without considering the possible consequences have nobody but themselves to blame if they end up becoming a parent outside of their ideal scenario.
You should go on the trip, but without him. If he really wants to make up for it and step into a role of supporting you and your daughter, this is the way he can do that. By sending you and his wife on the trip without him. It takes care of his commitment to your daughter, and respects you sexually.
“I wouldn't want you to get in trouble,” could be interpreted to imply that you are willing, but only want to avoid problems with sister in law.
No matter what you say, to go as a group that includes him would be tacit acceptance of the overtures, and would only lead to further and more escalated transgressions in the future.
He didn’t text her for a full week. She’s not bitching about not getting an hourly update here.
Tbh I never asked for it from my partner because I knew putting him on the spit like that would make him uncomfortable. I think I may have mentioned it a couple of times but really he just noticed my reactions the closer he would get to my throat and eventually he just got the hint without me saying anything. He wouldn't do it all the time and we never really talked about it he just reads my body language really well. That's something that just comes with a lot of time together. Since you guys are still fairly new, I'd say just respond and use your body language to steer and he will do what he is comfortable doing. Also tell him he is okay to speak up in the moment about what is uncomfortable it won't kill the mood or make you mad.
“like” that
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Now imagine if he refused to even eat at any restaurant that seemed even vaguely south America n.
Is he still the mature one in this exchange? Idk man.
Don't adults there pay for their own education? You sound very shallow. Marry her, you won't find anyone else that'll put up with you. I hope you'll make a better physician than husband. Poor girl.