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Date: October 19, 2022
Damn, sorry I don't have any advice but from your comments it seems like you genuinely care and want to make things right. I'm glad you're taking peoples advice but I'm surprised by how many awful comments there are in here putting words in your mouth. I wish you good luck.
Leave it alone. He’s changed his mind. He used to post her a bunch and clearly that didn’t work out. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand why he might not want to do that again.
Yes, I agree with this. Our finances are not mixed yet, and won’t be for a long time until we’re done with school. And also yeah, he’s grown, so am I and we can focus on our own separate finances until the time for the join finance discussion arises. Thank you
It’s gonna be easier to change your own reaction, rather than try to change his actions. He’s explained that he’s bad at texting, that it doesn’t reflect how he cares about you. Now it’s your turn to work on changing your own anxious habits. Have you tried spending less time on your phone, or checking it less frequently? You should work on finding a way to self soothe when he doesn’t respond, rather than expect him to change immediately
I’m leaving her. You got the assessment right 100% train wreck and I want off the ride
You’re right and I have considered moving closer but financially I’d have less money for other things , plus I financially support my mother who is disabled / chronic illnesses and can’t work with her rent so I’d be paying some of her rent plus mine, plus my bills etc which means id have a lot less for other things that I can do now. We talked about marriage and getting engaged sometime this year so I was kind of waiting it out.
he could get an airbnb, its expensive though with tickets, booking a hotel and then spending money he’d end up spending like £200 just for a weekend as he works on-site. I work remotely so I just take my laptop and work from there and get to go for like two weeks at a time.
It does feel one sided and I did put up with it for a while… I guess I was so attached and naive and tried to be understanding and making it easier for us, but it feels like I’m the only one holding us together. So to be honest, I don’t know why I’m putting up with it. I think I’m finally sick of it being one sided.
Let her die peacefully. Karma will get you back so don’t worry about it
Someone needs to talk to Steve about what really happened. I know what happened. Cheaters act how she acted. Dig deeper.
Leave him. He broke your trust and won’t acknowledge it. Don’t marry him he’s a manipulative person and doesn’t care nor respect you
Tell him you’ll do it with him and another dude. If he’s not comfortable with that, maybe he’ll understand how you feel. I would tell him never to ask again or you’re leaving.
yeah, I was in the middle of typing my comment but wanted to see what others had said first. I'm going to nope out of this. completely disgusting relationship.
He sounds gross
I’m a healthy weight but my bf mentioning wondering how I’d look if I lost more weight, I already planned on losing the weight so although I told him it was kind of fucked up and that curiosity was a him problem I wanted to lose a bit more anyways so it’s fine
The next day he messages me saying “hey I don’t know what I was thinking but don’t worry about it anymore” and ever since then he’s adamantly trying to get me to eat food and I ended up lecturing him because he just wouldn’t stop trying to get me to eat when I didn’t want to, AND no, although I do have a very unhealthy relationship with food, I do not have an ED
HOWEVER if I wasn’t planning on losing more weight I would have told him so, and if he tried to push on the matter I WOULD have broken up with him.
Weight is a different matter, I use this excuse to showcase how STUPID your bf’s preference is. A hairstyle? Really? That’s absurd. And to put him in a bad mood? Fuckin really?
OP didn't say that and being Autistic doesn't give you a pass for everything in life.
Well, you responded to me without any defensiveness so you have it in you to do it.
Sounds like the first step is for you to practice not say anything when your partner tells you something that makes you feel defensive. No matter what you're thinking, don't say it out loud. Then bring it up again later after you've given yourself time to think about what she said, and discuss the issue with a view to solving the problem and not apportioning blame. Always remember to act like you're a team, not competitors.
Classic projection. Leave him, obviously
Cut ties and dip obviously
This is a waste of your time and life essence. Love is not the forefront of everything.
Focus on yourself ; get some money plans and steady work ideas going. Or a new craft or hobby or hiking. Get out of internet fake love fantasy land ( if it’s this bad not irl , I promise you it would never last irl) and go experience some shit
This. Is. A. Waste. Of. Your. Time. You get one life. Go find some fun adventures and find a person who is proud to show you off to the world as theirs Fuck this pretentious internet fake love
I read your original post just to make sure I had the whole picture. This girl was happy to have a genuine friend and no longer felt the need to be on guard with you. She was relaxed and talkative. She felt safe. And then you, creepy dude you are, hit her with “hey, you should have sex with me with no strings attached”. Of course she's telling other girls! She was strong enough to say no. Do you know how many would say yes cause “but if I say no he may rpe/kll me!” She's protecting the rest of them. That's more than just a lil uncomfortable moment in a friendship. That's “I can fly under the radar for YEARS then suddenly reveal that I've been sexualizing you and thinking about your body the whole time”. Guess what, being in a good mood, chatting, and not feeling like we have to lean away from you, ISN'T FLIRTING. It's being relaxed. It's being around a friend. This isn't her “throwing away a friendship” this is her protecting herself from someone who made it clear he wanted her body, not her friendship. If you want a friend, be a good friend. If ya want a FWB, sign up for tinder and state that's what you are looking for.
So then why are you considering taking marriage advice from her?
Who you choose to partner with is arguably the single most impactful decision of your life.