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Date: November 20, 2022
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OP, I'm an atheist and so is my partner. He comes from a Muslim country though. When our son was small, he was talking to our neighbour who is Algerian and she was telling he needed to circumcise our son, which he agreed was a good idea. I immediately decided that if I couldn't persuade him not to, I would simply have to take our son away, no way was I going to let him mutilate my boy like that.
He doesn't mind you being an atheist but he wants his children to grow up in the church. This would simply mean that you'd be left out of all sorts of stuff, from services to picnics to goodness knows what else.
And then whatever the children decide once they're old enough to decide for themselves, he'll either take it as a victory or blame you for brainwashing them, it'd be very difficult for everyone to remain calm with such huge differences in mindset.
It’s weird that he pushed for you to meet them and then decided it’s too fast. He may have just calmed down.
I don't know how you get over that but there is a big problem. He desires to look at these things and he won't look ONLY because you don't want him to. The desire is still there. I don't desire to look at any hard pics of anyone other than my partner. That type of behavior you have described, while may be ok to some, is a deal breaker for me because it doesn't align with the morals and values I desire in a partner. Now what happens when you get pregnant, or are too busy with kids? Will he start looking again? I am not against porn, to be that's a bit different if the desire is purely to see the acts and get inspired I suppose. I am not for controlling what someone else does. I would suggest deciding and sticking to what you are willing to accept. I would personally rather be alone.
The other problem is that he lies. That is also a deal breaker when lieing about things like this. You have to decide what qualities are important to you. If him doing these things tanks your self esteem or mental health then you know what you do. If you can live with it then, you can't stay and keep bringing it up so be mindful of that. Best of luck.
Calling you names and throwing things at you are abusive behaviors and him always expecting you to apologize to him after every disagreement is pretty questionable IMO. I'd tell him he needs to fix his behavior or GTFO. Have you looked into counseling for the two of you?