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Yeah the only way religion and relationships works is if you both share it, or if you have mutual respect for eachother’s beliefs and have no desire to change them.
Well that's not OK either dude.
He needs to see a doctor and/or a therapist.
You need to Google Enthusiastic consent.
You are not the one with the issue. I was in your position once. Your body is trying to tell you something- that you do not want to be with this creep any longer. He is not a good partner. He is not worth doing anything to keep.
Break up with him and find someone who listens to you and your needs. And isn't such an insecure baby man that he won't use lube. You can do so much better.
Trust me, I've been with multiple men bigger than my ex since I got out of the situation like yours and there has been zero pain.
Get a therapist and get out.
Did I dispute that?im just saying, 2 wrongs don't make a right
Forcing yourself to have sex when you don’t want to is going to ruin your feelings about sex. I would talk to your doctor, maybe run some tests on your hormones, especially with PCOS
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I do agree with everything you've said, but would like to add that if you ask someone what they would like and they reply, giving anything else other than what theyspecifically requested and then being upset it wasn't received well is kind of…selfish? to me. Don't get me wrong, there should be appreciation for something given (the whole sex thing complicates the “gift” aspect here though)
Like, I also get that she was trying to be fun, sexy, etc. but this really seems like there's a lack of thought. Obviously there's years more context here we're not privy to, but, like, c'mon, a BLT is not a big ask ??♂️
OMG i feel so sorry for you XD
So, on a positive note, maybe text him first? Maybe he is the one waiting for YOUR text
I mean, you aren't giving much detail, but that isn't a no? Being accused of being a cheater and responding that looking for external reasons as the cause the issues is a super weird response to that accusation.
So, as many others have said, seems extremely likely he's cheating. Not that it matters now anyway, because what trash father would abandon his child like that. Good riddance.
Get some professional help, keep him as far away from you as you can manage, get healthy, fuck that areshole.
This is fucking disgusting.
DO NOT talk to him till you have a plan of escape. Abusers are most dangerous when they are about to be dumped.
DO NOT talk to him till you have a plan of escape. Abusers are most dangerous when they are about to be dumped.
He sounds like he doesn't actually care that much about you or your boundaries. Especially if he wears your clothes without asking when he's doing something that could (fake gasp) get him dirty.
This is definitely a red flag, and you need to take a closer look at other parts of your relationship. What other boundaries does he regularly push passive aggressively?
His behaviour is disgusting
You should distance yourself for a while at the very least.
To people hating on Rick, this guy is clearly going through some shit, he is a human being struggling to deal with this situation and has made a mess, he’s probably all fucked up inside and struggling alone all while he’s having to pretend everything is happy.
Damn, you imagine if she is THE ABUSER!!! Well it wouldn't be a surprise at this point.
Some may string them along.
Others may continually communicate their wants and needs to a partner prior to being married. The partner may acknowledge what they’re saying but not put in enough effort to actually accommodate those wants and needs.
She may keep saying “I’ll do this I’ll do that I’ll contribute to the relationship exactly how you want” but only do the bare minimum and only for a short period of time. constantly recreating this vicious cycle where the guy sees potential and capability but never feels truly fulfilled.
Until one day he’s fed up and leaves, and another woman fulfills all the wants and desires he continually communicated to the first woman. And she’s left feeling regret but is too proud to admit it so instead she echos the common trope of the man that is scared of commitment
The kids are 4 and 6. She's 25.
You don't treat little kids and adults the same.
You’re 48 years old. I’m the same age- just tell us what the issue is if you want help or an honest opinion. There’s nothing to work with here.
If your parenting styles are so different- why live! together when there are still kids at home?
You can't allow yourself to be strung along. You need to have a long talk about setting boundaries about what this is. Either you're together and she allows you to rectify whatever you did and re-gain your trust, or you're broken up and it's time to go your separate ways.
Even if you did something horrible for which she rightfully ended things with you, that doesn't mean she can hold you on a string, treat you as if things are normal, but ultimately call herself single so that she's not accountable to a relationship while you obviously treat it as such.
Talk about it and go from there. Good luck.
It's the brain affecting the immune system. Why can't we use Pavlovian conditioning to make the immune system stop producing IgE antibodies?
Honestly, you're going to get a lot of wild speculation in these comments, but no one on reddit actually knows why your fiance reacted that way. He could have some deep dark secret that he covering up, or he could be angry that you're making demands about an arrangement that is between him, his ex, and his child. The fact is, you are not a party to this agreement. If you can't live! with that, then walk away from the relationship.
What do I do?
Get some age appropriate friends? You're 25, my guy
Why did you hide it if its innocent
It sounds like the previous encounter of hers that you mentioned was traumatic for her, maybe an assault. I don't know, but it sounds like there's some serious unresolved issues with that encounter that she will need to address on her own time and in her own way.
It also sounds like she's just not that into you, or maybe is asexual and hasn't fully discovered that about herself yet. It honestly sounds like she's sort of just accepting/going along with the relationship because even though it's a good and solid relationship, it's just not what either of you want deep down. Like, although you two may have the image of a good relationship on the outside, you two are actually deeply incompatible.
I think you should just break up. She needs the chance to explore herself and figure out what it is she really wants and needs, and I think you need to find someone who is compatible with who you are and matches up with your own wants and needs.
Thank you
Just to clarify, she never said I should, not did I say she shouldn't- we just had polar reactions and it was surprise to me. I (at the time) couldn't comprehend her perspective. I do now. And she, mine.
She has actually commented in here, somewhere!
Holy shit you are rtarded :m?
Actually, no it isn't.
Sounds like your boyfriend is bisexual at best lol
nah both of their actions are so scummy wtf. tell everyone what they both did before they twist the narrative!! afterwards, collect evidence and divorce his ass. you deserve so much better OP, I’m so sorry you are going through this.
Angry victims like the person you replied to will never play a game to see if it matches with all the crazy shit they'll say about it, but the great thing is you can just ignore what they're saying because they're proud of their own ignorance, would rather be angry at how they think the world is rather than risk finding out they were wrong.
At that point it's a morality question. Do you support a venue that denied your significant other, or do you abstain from attending so you can be in solidarity with your partner. Communicate. Find a middle ground.
(English not my first language, sorry)
Hey op You are cooping and trying to control/ areas in your life to make up for severe pain in other area's.
U safe people becouse U want to safe your father but cant right now. And U try be a hero to young women becouse you want to be the hero agian in your own relationship but arent right now.
U really should unpack this asap with a psychotherapist. This is a dangerous way of dealing with stuff. Expecially combined with the insomnia. Things will be ok again, go talk to someone cuickly it will help.
He sounds like an ahole and I’m disappointed that you chose an ahole over your dogs
Less time on the Internet. More time pursuing your own hobbies. 22 is way too young to have given up on dating
Every single person I've met that has called themself an empath has been a raging narcissist.
No proper one. Casual just sex, definitely. More than just him. But actual emotional one, no. Because there hasn't been a guy I've been interested in.
How do you know she hasn't cheated more times? Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Maybe in six years she'll confess the times she cheated around this date. Good luck.
Your boyfriend is a butt because you deserve that open communication.
That being said, do ya'll have a system of how you guys navigate your conflict knowing that your boyfriend acts this way?
I bet his wife didn’t know about said lunch. What does that tell you? You need to be smart about it. There’s probably already rumours in your workplace and you do not want to be that woman.