0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat Deep_dream
Model from:
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1976-06-25
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorColorful
Eyes color: eyeColorHazel
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 11, 2022
ya i dont wanna hurt. i will just not respond to his texts.
Is the phone completely paid off or is it on a payment plan?
cries in poor
Uhm- she apparently has anger issues and is one of those who either can’t handle her alcohol or drinks to excess (blackout)- both are HUGE red flags. No matter how much she apologizes- and promises to stop drinking- my spidey senses are saying this wasn’t her first time being angry while drinking AND that it isn’t her first time getting so hammered she had no idea what she was doing- and put herself into dangerous situations. In fact – she put you BOTH in danger- herself by trying to off with some random – and you by creating a very public scene that quickly could have escalated into a melee for no reason. I would keep walking and while you can feel badly she’s hurt right now- hope she comes to grips with facing her issues- gets help and makes changes. Wish her well but don’t go back.
Are you in a no-fault divorce state? It doesn’t really matter if he’s cheating, so why waste money. Ask him. He’s giving her thousands of your joint assets, this isn’t a wait and see kinds of thing.
Imo i think it would be odd but i prob wouldn't be pissed
Sounds like some scary control issues. He wants you to start his business not your own. Run.
Ask her what she wants from you. If she’s not going to date you then why would she care who you date?
Have you asked her how she plans to date? Marriage doesn’t happen by accident.
Decide what you want from her. If she’s going to keep playing games then you are wasting your time on a girl that likes you but plans to do nothing more. Why invest so much time, no matter how much you wished she was available, to avoid dating others. It’s time for some decisions.
You date or end it.
Girl, as someone who has been here herself I hope you listen to me. He won’t change unless he himself comes to the conclusion that it is a problem. No amount of you getting upset, asking for a therapist, tracking his actively will get him to stop. If he genuinely cares about you, and you seem convinced he does, then he cares more about his own self pleasure. He is most definitely addicted- self pleasuring at a workplace is in no world appropriate or normal. You know all of this is true in your head, but your heart is hesitant because you loved the him before this, and keep seeing that man in your partner. He, unfortunately, is not that man anymore. You deserve better, and you know that. It’s incredibly hot to take the first step, but I think you need to realize there is no future with him. He could change, but he would need to come to that conclusion on his own, and that is very unlikely for someone who doesn’t think they’re addicted. It’s so hard and I’m so sorry for you. But you know what you need to do. I have so much sympathy and love for you, and I hope you choose to love yourself. Best of luck 🙂
…honestly it’s kind of weird that he told you about repeatedly spanking it at work in the first place. i probably would have kept that under wraps if i were him.
I really don’t think waiting a month to confront him again is going to help at all, especially since this is already a recurring issue. I think you should be very frank and tell him that his masturbation/porn addiction is really having a negative impact on the way that you view him. the fact that you outright use the word “pathetic” is a pretty bad sign for the longevity of your relationship. once you start viewing your partner as pathetic, it can be really tough to come back from that because it means your respect for him as partner/human being has plummeted pretty drastically (and tbh youre right: he IS pathetic). that sort of thing takes a long time to rebuild
I should have asked whether she really revealed her feelings to him.
OP says somewhere in the comments that she did. I still think people are taking it to an extreme. I agree he should probably not pursue based on the context, but the extent to which they are condemning her alone is ridiculous, considering their ages, respective levels of maturity and what kind of night it sounds like it was.
You call the police.
“Closure” I'm sorry , but to me, that is a fantasy . He dropped you like a hard rock . You don't owe him jack shit . No explanation , no update , no NOTHING . Why would you put yourself in the position to be hurt even further ? The best way to handle people that treat you like he treated you is with silence . They should no longer exist to you . Respect yourself more than that . I'm sorry about your miscarriage. That's terrible.
He also becomes upset if I grab his phone, grabbing it out of my hands right away and calling it annoying.
I know someone who did this!
Game over man.
My husband and I joke a lot. I love dark humor. If he ever said this to me, I would never look at him the same way. I would be repulsed. Rape is never something to joke about. Stop trying to be quirky.