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People don't change their entire personality after watching tik toks. This is who he is, believe him. Don't fall prey to the sunk cost fallacy (for example “I have invested so much/so long into the relationship, I can't leave”)
Im a solid foot taller then my gf and have no problem being on top. Little awkward at first but you can get used to it. Sounds like a lazy selfish lover to me.
I can’t tell who’s right and who’s wrong. We’ve both put a lot of effort into the relationship from both sides but I feel like now he doesn’t really care and as you say seems quite content with how things are. :/ I wouldn’t say I want to end the relationship, I really want us to work out and be at our happiest again but I feel alone in that wish :/
Was there other behavior that lead you to checking 2 year old comments? Has there been a discussion between you both on porn consumption?
For me, a woman in a heterosexual relationship, I'm all for porn but I don't want my partner interacting. I told him this like hey watch videos, have fun, go to cam sites just no interacting at all. He is cool with this, but I would not be upset if he had before as I did not lay out my expectations.
Don’t chase butterflies. They die off quickly if you get them anyway. Chase trust, comfort, safety, communication. Life isn’t always a fairy tale.
Am I telling you to stay? No. But I’m also not telling you to go. Only you can make that call. I haven’t had butterflies for my partner in like 6 out of 7 years. But they’re my home. They’re where I’m safe. I can be myself and not be torn down for it. I’m excited to tell them things. Butterflies are gone, but happiness and love are not.
Reevaluate what you want in a relationship. I made a list of literally 50 things with my therapist lol. Added to it after breakups.
It would be more productive to post after the conversation takes place. Your assumption will stop being assumption after you ask her after all. However I will just say you know you can't survive sleeping 4 hours a day in long term right? It is extremely taxing when you are 20 years old and you are 34. Something will have to give if you can't have time with your gf, your current work and poper amount of sleep, sooner or later, your relationship will be the one to go down. Well, unless you decide to take less time to work of course.
Dwindling population may – I said may, most likely not – be a problem, but does bf not understand that banning gay marriage is not going to make gay people go, “Well damn it!! Foiled again! annoyed sigh Ok, back to heterosexuality it is!!” Gay ppl are gay, married or not. Tbh he does not sound all that bright.
“I wanted him to understand what it felt like to be closeted.”
Mindful that too much harshness will get me banned off this subreddit, I confine my remarks to “…..Perhaps you two are incompatible.”
OP needs serious counseling to figure out why he has let himself be walked all over like this and his continuous rationalizing about how it is not the other persons fault. The only situation I've seen that was worse was the dad in that Netflix program, “A Friend of the Family”.
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So she should lie to satiate a dummies ego?
Nah.
He asked, she was honest. Leave this toxic insecurity at the door if you don’t want the answer.
Y’all bums know yalls dick game is complete ass, but always put the onus on the woman to lie to protect your fragile ego lol.
She did nothing wrong. Learn to stop fucking asking.
A few options. If you’re orgasming during forplay and then going straight to sex you may just not be ready for round two. You may have a longer refractory period that others.
Also you may be losing a significant amount of sensation due to the condom. Try some different brands and masturbate with them just to get comfortable.
Lastly it may all be entirely in you’re head. When you’re overthinking all the blood rushed to your brain instead of your dick (don’t know if that’s scientifically accurate, just a saying). See what you can do to get yourself comfortable and if all else fails you may just need a medical boost. It happened to me when I was your age. My doctor prescribed me viagra and it worked perfectly. Doesn’t matter how anxious/nervous you are. It will get nude. Once I was able to get comfortable I didn’t need it anymore. For me it only took 2-3 times.
The Lyme disease stopped being relevant the moment he began to abuse you. There is no excuse for his behavior. Get away from him before he tries to trap you even further. He will try to guilt you, but don't fall for it.
It sucks. It really does, when you think you know someone but you don't. You're not at fault for thinking things would be different than they are, but please trust me on this: The man you thought he was never existed.
You sound like a smart woman. You see right through him. Take the leap and once you have, you'll wonder why you didn't sooner. You will be fine, better even, without him. You're intelligent and capable. In fact, I'd do it before he returns. It'll be an easier separation.
You got this, seriously.
So much is still left out. Idk. Growing a baby is nude. My husband did almost all the chores when I was pregnant. I think i would be proud if i even just did one thing a day (put clothes in washer, vaccuum the floor, etc)
For the first year after birth, he continued to do most of the chores too. I did most of the baby caring
He abuses her too, some of it physical.
Allowance?
This guy can only see relationships as transactional.
I think you know both what you want and what the right move is.
It changes EVERYTHING.
If the heart is beating, it’s alive. If it’s alive, then the procedure is killing it, bare-bones legal murder.
That’s not a opinion, that’s a fact backed by biology and science.
At least from this info, it seems like he’s being open and honest. But it does seem weird “so many women” are into him lol
Agreed!! He's actions has reactions
My husband has NEVER made me feel pressure to do anything sexual with him. If I don't feel like it, he says okay and just gives me a cuddle. In the early days if he didn't have a condom and I wasn't comfortable with his, he'd stopped. If I asked him to pull out he'd always pull out in time. If I don't like something he's doing (I've always hated him touching my breasts while I'm breastfeeding, which I have been for 8 out of our 10 year relationship) he won't do it. He says he can't enjoy sex it I'm not enjoying it.
I say this because someone who genuinely loves you respects all your boundaries and cares if you are uncomfortable. He is being incredibly selfish and if this were my friend telling me this was happening, I'd probably advise her to run.
You’re only 18, and this relationship is long distance. Your expectations of a 19 year old male are not realistic. He’s at his sexual peak. He will find women he can have a physical relationship with. Also, he has every right to deny you his password. You had no right to ask for it. Identify theft is a major crime and you need to protect yourself as well. Never share your passwords. Forgot about him, and find someone you can see, touch, and talk to face to face. You deserve happiness.
Ah good old reddit… Minimal issues? Just dump and be alone forever because you deserve better, people need a reality check….
she has a fantasy idea of what she wants and you aren’t a mind reader. “if he wanted to he would” is for the guys who wait until the day of to get their gf some leftover roses and cellophane chocolate out of obligation. it’s not even until next week and she’s already acting like this? if i was you i wouldn’t take her out to dinner or anything like that, she’s devaluing the planning you did because she wants to be fawned over a week before the actual holiday. who knows if it’ll even be enough for her?
I think it’s very difficult to explain the full story of our relationship, but he fills every other expectation I have. He cares deeply for me, we have very healthy communication, he’s honest, and he’s the first person to ever understand me fully. I’ve never met anyone who can do that. It’s just when it comes to initiation and the romantic stuff he’s not great at. I’m still trying to figure out if it’s a deal breaker for me. But thank you for the advice, I appreciate it.
I don’t understand what your gf expected and am sorry this is the reaction you’re having. Self defense mode isn’t something I think men can like switch off – it’s in your nature to bite someone’s face off to protect your shit…
Well, that’s what therapy is for! Maybe look into that?
“I know you are planning to do X with Y, i dont really care.. but the fact that you were willing to hide it from me and lie about it changes how i view the relationship, this is a deal breaker for me and its non-negotiable, goodbye”
and then break up and never talk to her again. goodluck
An open relationship really isn't cheating and it definitely works of BOTH partners are into it. However when one is monogamous and the other is a bully, it's really not cool. She should leave him.
If a man truly loves you, he isn't interested in other women.