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Date: November 14, 2022
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He's literally dating her!
You could tell him that. Make it clear that you just want to hang as friends and maybe fuck, but you’re not looking for romance or a relationship.
Agreed that's the elephant in the room here, the OP may or may not have a change of heart about her choice but she needs to clear the air about analiating her BF's privacy. Anything said before that could change entirely and imo could be very manipulative.
Thanks, I will do that
Break ups don't require two party consent.
Get your shut squared away, possessions back, etc… then fire off a text, ideally when you know he's away from home, after you've placed his stuff in a box outside his door.
“I'm ending this relationship, there is no point in further contact. I am not changing my mind. Good bye.”
Then you block him on all avenues of contact.
If he shows up at your place you either don't be there or, ask him to leave once. If he doesn't call the place and have him cited with trespassing. Of course, you don't allow him entry into your home. If he does anything stupid you hold him accountable via laws.
You are done with him, and no longer attached in anyway, absolving you of any choices he makes or tries to project onto you.
It's understandable that you feel hurt and confused about the situation. Here are some steps you can take to try and resolve the situation:
Communicate with her: If she is willing to talk, try to have an open and honest conversation with her. Let her know that you never cheated on her and ask her to explain why she believes otherwise. Listen to her perspective without getting defensive, and try to understand where she is coming from.
Provide evidence: If you have any evidence that supports your innocence, such as phone records or messages, share them with her. Let her know that you are willing to be transparent and answer any questions she may have.
Seek support: Reach out to mutual friends or family members who may be able to speak to your character and vouch for your faithfulness. You may also want to consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor to process your emotions and gain clarity on the situation.
Respect her boundaries: If she has made it clear that she doesn't want to speak to you or see you, respect her decision and give her space. It's important to remember that you can't force someone to believe you or change their mind.
Consider moving on: If despite your best efforts, she still doesn't believe you, it may be time to consider moving on. It's not healthy to be in a relationship where there is a lack of trust, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to be honest and true to yourself. You know that you didn't cheat, and that's what matters most. It may take time, but with patience and understanding, you may be able to resolve the situation and move forward.