You leave without telling him. You get together anything important and either leave when he’s not home or call the police for an escort. Don’t talk to him about it just go. This is a situation where it’s on to ghost
Why should he? People process their damage at their own pace, and until they're ready, they're not ready. Nobody, not even their partner, has a right to press them on it.
You don't have to understand a thing to respect it. She didn't have to know the gory details to know it bothered him and she should give him the space he was asking for.
OP, several other redditors have talked about what it means to have half Asian genes. It does not mean one of your parents has to be Asian. It means that of all the genes they looked at, half of them have a form the testing company believes began in Asia. Other commenters are saying that because of the spread of the Mongols of Central Asia, many people in Europe have a lot of genes that originated in Asia.
Your update is interesting though and suggests that your mom isn't being forthcoming. Talk to her privately.
Is it wrong of me to expect sex? I need that intimacy in my life and I feel that’s the only way I can get it. I love my girlfriend dearly and we have great sex, and I feel close and loved when we are in the act. Does that make me a bad guy?
Say that. “It’s over, I know you’re on tinder again. Next time have the balls to actually break up with your partner before crawling back to tinder to test out your options.”
He was being cowardly by making sure he’d have a fucking backup plan before breaking up with you. Point that shit out. He’s being slimy and gross and deserves to know how fucked yo that it.
now I am also in disagreement with this guys take. but your analogy makes 0 sense to his take.
You leave without telling him. You get together anything important and either leave when he’s not home or call the police for an escort. Don’t talk to him about it just go. This is a situation where it’s on to ghost
Why should he? People process their damage at their own pace, and until they're ready, they're not ready. Nobody, not even their partner, has a right to press them on it.
You don't have to understand a thing to respect it. She didn't have to know the gory details to know it bothered him and she should give him the space he was asking for.
OP, several other redditors have talked about what it means to have half Asian genes. It does not mean one of your parents has to be Asian. It means that of all the genes they looked at, half of them have a form the testing company believes began in Asia. Other commenters are saying that because of the spread of the Mongols of Central Asia, many people in Europe have a lot of genes that originated in Asia.
Your update is interesting though and suggests that your mom isn't being forthcoming. Talk to her privately.
Different strokes for different folks.
Is it wrong of me to expect sex? I need that intimacy in my life and I feel that’s the only way I can get it. I love my girlfriend dearly and we have great sex, and I feel close and loved when we are in the act. Does that make me a bad guy?
Say that. “It’s over, I know you’re on tinder again. Next time have the balls to actually break up with your partner before crawling back to tinder to test out your options.”
He was being cowardly by making sure he’d have a fucking backup plan before breaking up with you. Point that shit out. He’s being slimy and gross and deserves to know how fucked yo that it.