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Attractive: FULL HOT [Multi Goal]
Date: October 31, 2022
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Attractive: FULL HOT [Multi Goal]
I know she is smart so I really value her input. I gave her the responsibility to manage the expenses and acounts. She is learning to take on these tasks. However it's not consistent. She will work non stop for one day and then for 5 days straight, no progress. And I nentioned that I need her to be consistent to fulfill this role. We end up fighting. While trying to manage my business and get us out of this hole, it becomes very frustrating to deal with irresponsibility. I gave her all the tools to make her feel like a valued team member. But alas.
We all hope you end it sis
She was going through a bad time a slept with 2 people casually. As others have said that is a trauma response. Feeling bad so you have to get your validation somewhere else.
It literally happened because as you said yourself she was in a bad place and made some regrettable decisions, but you don't have it in your heart to forgive her because she “gave her body away”
And again if she only wanted you for sex she would've left you. She didn't do anything promiscuous or bad. Your standards are incredibly high and misogynistic. As someone else said you can want someone who has only been in serious relationships but you're reasoning behind it, (Which is basically none) is what makes it gross.
I personally cheat. I simply cant see the problem if i do it respectfully in a way where I wont get caught. Further, i plan to move away so my relationship just seems temporary to me.
There are certainly men who dont I know many that would never step outside of there relationship. So keep looking youll find a good one
Exactly!
my guy. i mean this with the utmost respect because i know it’s hard to see things when you’re looking through rose-colored glasses.
i’ve been in a situation similar to yours. i got cheated on in that situation. i’ve also cheated on women before, so i kind of know how a cheater works. speaking from experience in both areas, im really sorry to tell you this but you should end it while you’re ahead. if you confront her about it she will deny, lie, and deny some more.
tell her “we are finished” and let that be the end of that. everything she’s doing is 1000% consistent with someone who’s cheating.
i know it’s hot to read this, i know. but when she’s gone and you’ve found the person you really love you’ll be thankful you did.
sorry this had to happen to you man. keep your head up. go to the gym and become something else entirely
It's your gut telling you that the relationship is nearing its end imo. If he won't even touch you anymore without prompting he ether is cheating, or like you said, lost interest in you. The question is was this a gradual change or a sudden one? If it was out of the blue he could be cheating or seeing someone else, if it was gradual then he may just not be interested and it's time to move on to someone who is.
Spousal benefits for SS I think came up in a post about a woman whose partner passed unexpectedly and they had a child and lived together over 10 yrs in Hawaii. The state doesn't recognize common law relationships so she can't afford the house alone and gets nothing re spousal benefits. Dealing with that while grieving is unnecessary.
He’s lazy. ??
He's totally jealous and shaming you is by no means acceptable. You don't deserve that after all you've been through. You're still young, you'll find a better guy. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't treat you right.
He's not a man but a boy, a man would be grateful to have someone like you in his life and try to learn from you, not put you down.
This is very true, but you have to realize what you are in for
At the end of the day the money isn't yours to wave around. If your dad died and left money, then yeah, do whatever you want with it. This is up to her unfortunately. Maybe it sounds harsh, but there's always gonna be a divide when it comes to mixed families. Favoritism will be involved, and honestly how can you blame someone for that? Their own family comes first. You can try to pester her about it and maybe she'll cave but it could leave a nasty mark, because in her mind you and your kid are separate. You may wanna consider keeping it that way
Ask him how he would feel if his ball sack was ripped open and had 12 stitches in it?
But how is your birthing hips advantage?
Everyone is unanimous with this here… my work here is done. disappears
I mean he gave him chances but my BF gets super competitive in basketball and he has to win at all costs , that’s just his mentality. He looks up to Kobe and I guess he doesn’t really take into account others feelings. In his eyes you’re either a good player or not
His sister is choosing to live with her brother. She feels comfortable with her brother. Why didn’t the parents come and pick up the sister? Maybe the sister feels better with her brother as they are closer in age and she feels that he is more connected to her. A person with serious mental health issues may not always be comfortable with every living situation.
What it is: you are a naive young woman being used by a much older man. Eventually you’ll age out or ask too much and he’ll get sick of you. Find someone uncomplicated who is closer to your age.
This feels like one of those neurotypical “games”, and they call us the abnormal ones ?
This is trash. She doesn't want his name, doesn't want kids, and doesn't want to share assets. Can you really blame the guy for not wanting to blow all this money on a fancy party? She doesn't wanna marry him that bad either, she just wants the glamorous day and the attention it brings.
Actually there is no common law marriage in England and wales. Not sure about Scotland. So most of the uk do not recognise a common law marriage
Done, done and done. I've mentioned a few times that I “don't go for sex” unless she initates it. But she also knows I'm way more interested in sex, so she must be assuming I'm silently screaming it at her.
Two of her complaints what that I either just gave her a short kiss (peck) and I'm always on my phone. So I made a point of more passionates kisses and then just leaving it there. And I never turned on my phone at bed time for about 10 days event though she usually was on her phone and/or watching tv. I'm not sure she even noticed the change.
Are they still together?
What ever he broke up with you for hadn't worked out so he wants you back until he has reason to dump you again.
I'm the same age as your boyfriend. I wouldn't talk like that.
Thank you.
You need to be honest or you will lose your connection with your brother.
She violated a big boundary and continued to film you after you respectfully asked her to not do it.
She is loud, obnoxious, and it's okay that her personality doesn't match with yours BUT you need to grow up and have these kinds of conversations. Or, again, lose your connection with your brother.
We did a trip to the Dominican Republic right after we joined the vacation club. We had a great time, and I was hoping that this trip would be just like that one and the first one.
I have no need to bait people for responses, I didn’t even want to disclose that we met on a sugar dating website in the first place. I got downvoted to hell just for saying I didn’t want to talk about how we met. I get how this may be difficult to understand, but everything I’ve said has been true.
I guess I could be wasting my time watching real housewives instead of making cookies for my mom and browsing reddit, but let's be real honest. We both know which of those is sadder.
I never said no one else could have an opinion. I'm telling everyone else they are wrong. I believe you came in here basically telling me to shut up because you don't like seeing my responses, so I say hypocrite heal thyself.
I mean I can see some logic in the argument of “cheating on his son and family”, that he hurt the child by proxy by hurting his mother and so on, but in the end the reality is cheating is between partners in a relationship and there is no direct harm to the child. The argument about the father spending time with his mistress instead of child…yeah he could have just played video games in that time and the time would still not have been devoted to the child anyway, so while there may be some indirect effects, the act of cheating is not an act against the child itself. I know some people might dislike the idea, but you might be a cheater and still be a good parent.
I also understand the mother is hurting, but she also needs to understand that her son is a separate individual, not an extension of herself. This is a fact that a lot of toxic parents can't seem to get over. Whenever you're 'using' your child to get back at somebody, or to play some emotional game with somebody, you're doing something morally wrong.
Cheating is a shitty thing to do but it's not on the level of being a totalitarian regime tyrant or even 'just' committing murder. Just because your partner cheated on you doesn't entitle you to destroy their connection to their own child. Just because a relationship didn't work out, even if one person is a cheater who is directly at fault and handled it in a morally reprehensible manner, it doesn't mean you are allowed to play your kids against them.
He's just let you know that he doesn't have a problem lying to you, taking advantage of you financially and that you can't trust him. So don't trust him.
I can't make your choices for you, so I hope you find the way that gives you the most peace
Stop putting on a happy face. Tell others, it's not your shame but his. Why are you the one who should ve ashamed?! I say F that!
Maybe he will come to his senses if exposed and if not …well… I guess you know what to do if you don't want to live like that for the rest of your life.
So if you, your female colleague and two male colleagues are about to go to lunch… and then the two other guys get pulled into the meeting… you'd have to cancel lunch entirely and tell your female colleague that the new configuration isn't allowed for you?
Fair enough. But I don’t think you’re being totally fair as far as “we have all the time in the world”. I wouldn’t date someone who didn’t want to have sex regularly or the sex was mediocre to bad.
Person A justify cheating. Person B doesn't justify cheating.
I want you to pick who is more likely to cheat. Ill grade you after.
I would never accept cheating, but in her case
Yeah no wife is going to stand for that bit of hypocrisy.
Sexless marriage, and he was emotionally unsupportive, among other reasons.
Those are reasons to leave a relationship. They are not reasons to cheat.
It will also pose a problem for my future friendships.
Why is that? That sounds like cheating is something you'd readily accept in a friend.
Lmaoooo! I would scream if my dog ever. That’s so uncomfortable! I used to kick our dogs out of the room because I could NOT stand the staring or just knowing they were nearby.
Yes, we live in a northern country.
She works as a personal support worker. Her hours actually end at around 2. But she says she is tired afterwards as her job is physical and doesn’t like to drive
He sounds like a loser. Why does he care so much about what others think about him? Why is he looking for everyone's approval? He needs to grow up; because sane people will try everything in their power to keep going up the ladder in their jobs. Because job + promotions = money
for me, that was the easy time
Bro she cheated on you. Exploring one’s sexuality doesn’t excuse cheating. Point blank period.
This sounds like an bad assumption, I'm not saying that you can't deduce that as a theory, but it's not a conclusion.
thank you for your advice!! I'll start to look for one soon
Haven't heard anyone say this but I'll give you these tips I always use myself:
Do her first before any penetration (use your hands/fingers/mouth), listen to her body and learn her movements & what they mean
second and most important: take breaks, lmao. I can last for ''hours'', why? Because we get cuddle breaks. Drinking water, small breaks for lubing up, cuddle sessions.. Can't ever lose.
Go get'm, tiger.
Missed his big moments including his birthday because she was fucking his best friend. So guessing 'best friend' missed those moments too.
I'm amazed he even wants to meet her.
My husband and I have had a similar issue. And I totally get where your gf is coming from. It feel like that sometimes. My husband reassures me too but it still hurts. I would suggest looking into getting some viagra. It really helps!
My husband and I have had a similar issue. And I totally get where your gf is coming from. It feel like that sometimes. My husband reassures me too but it still hurts. I would suggest looking into getting some viagra. It really helps!
I'm so sorry to hear this!
What you describe has many classic traits of a “n@rcissistic marriage”, and your husband is trying to prevent you from escaping the effects:
You Don't Feel Connected. Your husband talks with you when it is convenient. He never actually asked what your plans are for the future, or how you can work together to build the life you want. Instead of joining you in your self-improvement, he makes it sound like it's a bad thing. You Feel Manipulated. Your husband makes subtle threats throughout the relationship. He tries to control you in a way that is destructive to you, instead of lifting you up. You Don't Feel Good Enough. Your husband tries to cause you to have feelings of inadequacy that don't match what you've accomplished in your life. He puts you down and makes negative comments about the things that you do, and makes false accusations. You Feel Responsible for Everything. He thinks that everything is always someone else's fault, including the things that he does wrong. If somebody doesn't compliment him, he refuses to believe it's because he's lazy and a mess. You won't get an apology from him for his behavior. You Feel Criticized Constantly. Your husband is excessively critical of your appearance, instead of celebrating your health improvements. He makes fun of you and puts you down. You Feel Unloved. When you first got together, you felt like the most amazing person in the world. However, as time went on and problems arose, your partner began to devalue and ignore you. As you improve, he hates you instead of loving you more. He hates himself, and is upset he can't get you to still follow him downward. You Can't Rely on Your Partner. When your husband agrees to something, you never know if he will follow through, even with basic things like taking the lunch you prepared for him to work. You don't feel as though you have a partner you can rely on, and you find yourself having to do everything yourself. You justifiably don't do as much for him anymore, since he ignores what you do for him anyway. You've Asked, He Won't Change. N@rcissists aren't willing to change because this would mean admitting something is wrong within themselves—and he will never admit such things. He instead wants you to be unhealthy and sad like him.
You are amazing, and I feel bad for your situation. I wish you the best of luck! An individual counselor can help you proceed. A couples counselor wouldn't be useful, since your husband would never cooperate.