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Date: October 1, 2022
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Don't cling to a mistake just because you spent a long time making it.
LEAVE. If those were “potential deal breakers” then why has he made no attempt to communicate that to you? He will continue to waste your time. You don't have to allow him to do that.
Look she made a mistake. Lambasting her is doing no one any good. Give her advice on how to make it better. She needs to be completely honest with him that she fk’d up. That she thought better than him. And in doing so discounted his feelings and history about something he knew best. That she was completely and utterly arrogant in her stupidity. She obviously knows nothing about the realtor his fam. What can she do to make it up to him? Because she needs to make it up to him if they have any chance in hell of a future together, one able to overcome his horrible family and their grossly overt prejudice.
Back in the 90s, I got off of active duty and came back to my home town. I was 27 years old. When I looked around at the guys my age back here, I saw them still acting like they were High School…..
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It sounds like he just doesn’t care
Your BF is exceedingly immature, and his expectations are totally unrealistic. Especially since you're living together.
I hope you will take a moment to stop and realize that one of the reasons people have partnerships and move in together is because they believe they have found someone they can truly be comfortable with and can be themselves. This guy is, literally, demanding that you NOT be comfortable with him or in your own home and make up some weird shit to role-playing or something.
Tell him to get real or get out. Seriously. Who wants to live that way?
It sounds like OP & the bf have talked about this pretty extensively, there are comments from OP about how they’ve had multiple conversations about what terms he prefers 🙂 I fully understand what you mean though, it’s rough out there for anybody who uses multiple pronouns, or especially any neopronouns.
He is abusing you physically, verbally, and emotionally. Why he is doing this is not important. He is hurting you and he is hurting your baby, who is already feeling the effects of the stress and fear in your body. You must get away from him.
that guy sounds like my bf! i've actually asked him before if anything could have happened between us if i hadn't asked him out and he said no. he was too intimidated by the entire situation. so my advice is that you should ask him out. he probably won't do it on his own. also, i've actually been the one who asked out all my past partners and all of them said that they liked it. i know that it's weird to some people that a girl would ask out the guy she's into but honestly, FUCK those gendered standards. if you like someone, ask them out. if they like you back, they will be happy about it, no matter anyone's gender.
Tell him.
But seriously, it’s not fair that he’s the only one who cooks so maybe therapy so you can get okay with cooking once in awhile without feeling like it’s traumatic.
They had 18 years to tell their son. If she’s so ashamed of what she did why not tell your kid the truth. Not to mention she lied to the ex husband trying to pass 2 kids off as his. That says a lot about her and not her sister.
Thanks for the reply, I’m just worried about how she’ll take a break up, or even just a serious talk about how things are right now, I care about her and don’t want to see anything bad happen
Stop responding and get some space. If that is how she has always behaved then you are putting far too much time and energy in to this ‘friendship’.
Take a step back. Get a new hobby. Make new friends and focus on your work. Eventually you will move on.
I certainly would. If he would do this in front of your parents and your not married then what do you think it will be like after you are married and living together. That’s a shit move on his part on top of not reading the room on the topic. Or worse he read the room but still continued. Two things disrespectful to you and your parents. I think you have you an asshole there
This is an irrational and, frankly, damaging attitude to take. No doubt it reflects past circumstances where you felt “left out.”
Accept that common human experience and the move past it. Be happy (not just act happy) for your partner's good times and for the messages he sends that show he thinks of you. In the time until he returns, do things that lift your own spirits.
Use mantras or do some meditation, or take long walks in your free time, if those help you cope and reach a new appreciation of the good in your life.
OP Look at all you've written! He says there is no issue because YOU do everything. That's why he is all fine. You pick up after him, you clean the whole house etc on top of work and study.
Long story short: you are young and he is probably not the end all be all relationship. I suggest you take a good hot look at all you described here and think:
Wouldn't you have more time in your life and less stress if you broke up? Be happier? Do you really love him at this point? No harm in saying you don't. He is all fine because clearly YOU are the maid.
Look out for number one, that being you. A relationship has two people working together, not just one
Your really stuck in the deep end here. I was raised by someone on those scales, or had other conditions that are close enough.
To be honest with you i wasnt raised by him, i was raised by my mom under the same roof as him. I was just a toy, a means too an end. Today i am 27F and i place blame with my mother for not protecting me, for choosing too stay with him, and defending his abusive actions too me everytime. My mother sounds an awful lot like you. I hope you really think about that when you choose too stay with this man, cause your son may not speak too you someday for not protecting him from a sociopath.
Box this however you want too, my mother did just like you did, her parents were concerned for her just as your mother was, my father isolated my mother from her family, them her friends, then even herself, and she went along with because “he is only doing this because he loves me” “he’s not an abusive man”
I rlly do hope your a troll and i also hope you get yourself help before you have no contacts left.
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Honestly she doesn’t seem all that interested or she atleast moved on. I say leave her alone. The fact that you gave her attitude because of her making previous plans that she forgot about probably makes her less inclined to want to talk to you since you showed your lack of understanding and empathy. Quite frankly the fact that you got upset by something so minor would be a red flag for me.