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Golden Ticket Show: tease u with my body (22 tokens per ticket)
Date: October 10, 2022
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Golden Ticket Show: tease u with my body (22 tokens per ticket)
YTA. You sound like a real charmer. Did you invite her to move in for the sex and when life got complicated, you want to boot her out? She would be better off without you.
I would just….loaf around the house…
You shouldn’t have said anything and tried to collect more evidence. She’s likely to cover her tacks now if she was cheating
You left your wife at home with the kids while you went to the Christmas party, and then you went out to the bar afterward?
And after seven years, you're still talking about your stepchildren like they aren't your responsibility?
How often do you stay home with the kids so she can go out drinking with her friends?
You need to take a step back and have a discussion with your wife about the balance of responsibilities in your home, including things like caring for the children, finding babysitters, going out together (with and without the kids), and going out alone with friends.
It's important that you are each taking equal responsibility for your household and family, and that you each have opportunity to spend time with your friends, and that you also have opportunity to bond as a couple.
I can't tell you what that will look like in terms of # of nights/month because I'm not that familiar with your lives, but I can tell you that unless you both find the arrangement balanced and equitable, it's going to be an ongoing source of friction.
Get therapy for your self-esteem. You want a crap man and only are trying to attract crap men. You were separated from a serial cheater so you didn’t do anything wrong.
I’ve asked and he has no girlfriend atm!
I guess at the end of the day if he does this for the men he works with then I would think it's okay. But if he only does it for her, what does that say?
There will not be a person in this thread that will tell you to stay with him just because you have a history. That's because every person who has been in your situation is incredibly happy that they left, rather than stayed.
I felt the exact same way you did at one point. And every day I am so grateful that I left my unhappy relationship. Because now I'm happier than I ever thought possible.
There's a reason that a phrase exists that exactly describes your situation. It's the sunk-cost fallacy. The time you've spent with this man isn't wasted just because you don't stay in the relationship. You've undoubtedly learned and grown during this time. Appreciate it for what it was.
The proof is in his face and yours, denial isn’t an option.
. If he had a significant other, it would be implied that they were invited.
Are you sure about that? In lots of more conservative families, you only get an invitation/+1 if you're married, or at least engaged.
I’m talking with him in person about my feelings I just wanted to come here first so I don’t feel crazy. Because this situation is crazy honestly and I shouldn’t even have to deal with it :/
Yeah, I don't think the weddings are the issue, it's you being a secret and your bf having no concrete timeline etc. about how this relationship will move forward, if it will move forward.
Just no to this whole man.
Relationships can survive cheating and mental health issues, but it's not easy. Are you in a better place now, mentally? Is she ready to take ownership of her mistakes and rebuild trust? It's going to be a long road and both of you are going to have to walk it. If you can both convincingly grow from it – truly and permanently – then maybe there's a future to this.
On the other hand, you're young, she's young… Don't torture yourself to make this work. If you're not feeling it, you can leave. It's not as apocalyptic as you might think.
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Please tell me you mean ex-husband, right?
Nothing saves a failing relationship like a baby. /s
If he wanted to divorce her, he would have by now. She wanted to divorce him she would have by now.
You need to move on, you need a man who will make you dinner not feed you the leftovers his wife didn't want.
Thank you for the context, it does explain a lot. I take back my original advice; it makes a difference that this has been going on for years. I think at this point it may just be time to end it. You have been trying and trying to fix it, but at the end of the day you cannot make her take responsibility for her own life. I think you may have reached the limit of what you can do.
You leaving might actually be the kick in the butt she needs to change.
No, she's not right. She can be 100% wrong that the other girl was any threat to the relationship before OP destroyed the relationship.
I would love to pick up more hours but I am a single mom and I also take care of my grandmother who is bed ridden so I can’t at the moment. And yes I’m a little salty because I sacrifice my time and money to help him so I guess I expected It in return but by looking at the comments I guess I’m being selfish I don’t know anymore
Updateme!
You need to end it. Dragging this out will make this worse. I have dated conventionally unattractive people, but I thought they were attractive, no one else saw what I saw. The problem is you don't find this person attractive, and that is ok. The longer you know her the less attractive to you she is. This is a sign you shouldn't be with this person.
Someone will find her attractive, but she isn't free to find that person because she is tied up with you. Do both of you a favor and break up.
how it felt nice to speak with a guy without the tension we were having.
What kind of “tension” are we talking about?
It's only going to get worst. And please don't use alcohol as an excuse. Leave wihle you can. You are way too fucking young. You deserve everything that comes to you if you stay.. this is a huge red flag.
You don't. Each relationship is a learning experience that prepares you to be better for your next partner. Childhood relationships are just for practice, best for you to just move on to something better. She doesn't want you, she wants the person who's already learned from their previous relationships
You could, at a minimum, be fired for this. Good that you recognize how wrong what you did was, but it bears repeating.
What should you do? Get tested. Don't ever again snoop in someone's medical records. Honestly how you deal with him is the least of your concerns.
No one is making her do anything. She is making the choice but is saying she is making it because I made the report.
The focus is “obviously” on her ass? I see a normal picture where she's just facing away from the camera. There's no zooming in or centering of her ass or any bright neon signs saying, “Look at my ass”.
You sure you aren't just projecting here and assuming the worst? As far as pictures go, this is VERY normal and average and not sexual at all. If my wife sent this to any friend male or otherwise, I wouldn't think any of it. I am just not seeing anything inappropriate or sexual in this photo.
Certainly, and you keep coming back for more. Find someone new and better.
she's already a step mom
Divorce.
Her inability to go anywhere else is her problem, no longer yours to care about.
If you rent, see how you can get out of the lease, and then if affordable for you, do so.
If you have a mortgage, you will need to make the immediate sale of the house (or buyout by one party to the other) part of the divorce.
You're 18. Drop the love shit and move on. This won't get better and it'll destroy your self esteem.
You'll be fine.
Your wife is way out of line here, like totally bonkers overreaction. Is she like this with everything?? Sounds exhausting
“I love you too much to sit back and watch you kill yourself. I can't stay.”
That's it – that's all you have to say. I'm sure you and her family mean well, but none of you are capable of curing her. You shouldn't be – you aren't qualified medical professionals.
Your mental health is suffering, and you don't need to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Wishing you peace. ❤️
I'm sorry for you. Discovering that your parents can be that kind of persons must be overwhelming. I would suggest you focus in your relationship with you boyfriend, which obviously you love dearly, so he knows you are absolutely on board with him.
Idk, I would think in cutting off my parents of my life. I wouldn't need that kind of persons in my life.
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How about you should have started years ago? You’re not doing this because you’re sorry for what you did to him, you’re doing it to play happy families on your wedding day.
“Hey bro, I know we haven’t spoken in eight years since I stole your girlfriend, but why don’t you come and watch us get married?”
Yeah, right.
How about you should have started years ago? You’re not doing this because you’re sorry for what you did to him, you’re doing it to play happy families on your wedding day.
“Hey bro, I know we haven’t spoken in eight years since I stole your girlfriend, but why don’t you come and watch us get married?”
Yeah, right.
Why do you guess it can work while not meeting your needs?
It is easy to move her stuff out if you just moved it in. Easy peasy. I'm not usually one like this but I know my fragile ego would be like “nah that's just disrespect and we won't have that in my house”
It's refreshing to see someone have faith in their partner. A lot of people just hear the story and see red, they don't think about logic and how the story may sound. Good for you. You probably would have ruined your relationship had you come in with accusations and anger.
Does your sister have any reason to dislike your gf? Maybe some issue that the two of you aren't aware of maybe? This is all wild and I hope you all get to the bottom of it, but I'm glad to hear the two of you will be figuring it out together. That's what's important. Best of luck!
It seems like he only views you as a sexual object rather than a good friend. It’s time to end the “friendship.”
Your post history is concerning. Are you sure you are mentally healthy enough for a relationship?
So here’s the thing: you didn’t just find out he was cheating, you found out and knew about it before he proposed. There are ways to cheat that don’t have to involve sex. So he proposed to end the discussion and keep you tethered down while he still had his side piece. Now it’s up to you to decide if you want to continue to be jerked around by him or not.
Idk why it costs me this much. we have tried therapy in the past.
And for the love, please get tested!!! Even if he really only cheated twice, he is still putting you at risk!
And as you said, he's lied so much already!
If you are low income, you should be able to find resources.
Thank you. I seriously needed to hear this comment really badly. I appreciate it I hope you have a great night ❤️
If you were too drunk to remember anything you were to drunk to consent and were assaulted.
Updateme!
He’s giving you an ultimatum he wants a child or you want you to work in the business. Just like you he has his own wants. So just break up with him and you can have what you want and he can have what he wants.
It's so strange to have him put submissive in this relationship context. I'm pretty much like op, loud, quite often the leader etc and I don't even wear makeup a lot and dress in mens clothes and I still enjoy being submissive in bed with my partner, those things have exactly nothing to do with each other
Your comment is assuming they had sex while she was on her period.
It could still work if let’s say it had been 3 weeks since her last period when they had sex. Fast forward 3 other weeks we’re now 6 weeks past last period so about 2 weeks late. She does a pregnancy test and voilà.
No I don’t think so. The message was just “The stress level ?”. And he reacted with the “!!”. Nothing crazy at all. But just the fact that I couldn’t find that text anywhere in their convo means it was deleted
nah the fact that she’s hiding, lying and getting mad defensive? she’s cheating on you with that new make coworker.
If this is real, then you need to stop being such a doormat.
Break up with this psycho and block her.