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Date: November 21, 2022
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I strongly advise you against making sex acts transactional, especially for a SA survivor. This could be really harming her.
Is she in therapy for her trauma?
They're are loads of possibilities here. She could be traumatized, have a medical condition, be on the asexual spectrum, who knows. She probably doesn't even know. This is likely going to be a long journey of healing and self discovery for her, and if you're there trading food for sex acts and “really asking” (pressuring her) for blowjobs, you are inhibiting her progress.
Where's the lie? They weren't hooking up when you two began hooking up. They hooked up months prior to you two even meeting. She talked to him that week, but that's not hooking up. She ended it with him when you two started dating.
What would you do after knowing? Now be paranoid whenever your wife doesn't answer her phone for a couple hours or goes out with coworkers.? Like what healthy boundaries could come from this?
Imo agreed that nothing good can come from this and OP just learned how close her marriage is to being done and to either work on it or try something else.
You can’t trust her.
Was your plan to have kids with her? What’s your plan for when daddy wants to meet his princess’s babies? How about when he spoils them rotten and they don’t understand why they can’t have a sleepover at grandpa’s house?
Also, since this man has no formal charges filed against him—if you split up you might not be able to prevent him being in your kids’ lives. And actually unless you put trackers on them you have no way of knowing if she takes them over there anyways.
What I’m saying is your fiance doesn’t have a sane or reasonable outlook on this situation, she’s a danger to kids at least by proxy and maybe worse.
Ok??????????
No. They only have a steak and support of her. She’s supposed to inform you and make her decision.
They can’t make her do anything.
Being annoyed that she texts (communicates) with her parents is concerning about you.
You need to understand. Her parents aren’t going anywhere. A life with her, is a life connected to them.
Yeah your fiancé has issues, I’d rethink this engagement
Has the feelings changing ever happened to you after a few years?
her sons father abused her multiple times before verbal and sometimes physically which is why they are not together and they have frequent fights and he calls her words that she hates so when i said that word it triggered her
it depends on him. If you tell him that you’re being irrationally jealous he’s either going to. say “OK, we can work through that”, or he won’t.
you definitely don’t want to ask him to stop being social, and that’s the only way that he could relieve your jealousy issues. You need to put yourself in uncomfortable situations like you currently are, and as time goes by they will become less uncomfortable.
Hey you know the saying: Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.
There’s absolutely no reason for her to have any kind of relationship with the person who she had an affair with. Period. And if she acts like you’re being controlling by having this very simple obvious boundary, then bye.
I mean if she really wanted to prove something to you, when you guys got back together, she should have permanently blocked him on everything. Seems like she just got better at hiding it this time around. She is playing you right in your face. You deserve better.
I think it’s your son that needs the attention.