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Just say no! Don’t try to convince her of things. I’m not hanging out because I don’t want to, nothing to fight or argue about, I’m just not going to have you in my life in this way! You should burn the bridge that leads to a unstable person willing to drag you down with them, but that’s your choice!
People are confusing, deal with it. It's either that she's (subconsciously, mind you) afraid to make the first step or it's that she's misinterpreting your behavior. Anyway, it's up to you – either you say you like her too or you say you're not interested. Both are better than just awkward silence.
there has got to be a less confusing way of introducing the concept of psychological projection to newbies.
basically it boils down to “when a person doesn't understand their own complicated feelings, they imagine someone else has those feelings instead, in order to process them in a way that doesn't endanger their current sense of self”. the most obvious contemporary examples would be homophobes who are repressed homosexuals. they may not even know they are gay.
that said, i don't really think the person flirting with them is projecting. she may just be flirting naked. the guy may be mirroring her behavior out of friendliness rather than mutual attraction, and it's created a misunderstanding.
Selfish lover? Rude to service people? Noncommunicative? When you're first dating, the person is supposed to be on his best behavior in order to win you over. Given how lousy this guy is acting during the supposed honeymoon phase of dating, imagine how awful he'll be when he lets his guard down. Exit, stage left!
Get therapy, this is impacting your life far more than it should