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Date: October 6, 2022
I've been through mental and physical abuse from my parents and I'm trying to establish a healthy parenting relationship with my daughter teaching myself along the way.
He's been in a extremely bad relationship which his kids are from. He had to hid a lot in that relationship for 6 years and had abuse in it aswell. He struggled to open us due to the apparently he lost both his parents young. I feel like this has a strong affect on him too. But I'm also considering ending.. I don't want too. I do love him, but I just can't feel like this all the time
Let Brenda know as well, then dump him.
Id think this sets a bad precedent. His friends cause drama, but thats okay. You aren't allowed to do something because his friends will cause problems.
You're okay with this? Because it allows you to impose similarly toxic restrictions on him?
What if later on, his friends start calling you something like a sl*t because of how you choose to dress? What if they start uo drama about how you shouldn't dress that way? He's made you change to accommodate their problems already, it wouldn't be far fetched for him to then tell you to dress differently because of his friends. You're showing him that you're okay with changing your actions and limiting your behaviors because of how his friends will react.
What about from his side, too? You're too insecure to let him spend time with any women alone, so what if he starts to do other things that make you feel insecure? What if he starts going to the gym because he wants to be able to do pull ups (let's assume here he isn't already this fit)? Are you going to tell him to stop doing something for himself and his health because you're worried he'll attract other women? What about work parties? What if he has a work party where no one gets a plus one, but there's going to be drinking and its a formal event? Are you going to tell him to not go, because you're worried about feeling insecure, thereby limiting his career growth because you have problems with your self esteem?
The mindset you're both in is immature, and the foundation of your boundaries is toxic and controlling. Just because you both “benefit” from this toxic behavior, doesn't make it any less toxic.
You got proof its fake? If not then shut it
To start you need to crystallise why you hate her and where it's coming from. Hate isn't an ambient word, there's virtiol in that word. So when these feelings of hate come up, where do they come from? Disinterest I could understand, out of sight, out of mind etc… But actual hate, that requires some hooks to sink into. What are the hooks?
Oh I get that bit about toxic friends. But…this is not that, clearly.
OP needs to make sure that her husband is clear on what she posted here, if he isn’t already.
1) your safety is the top priority.
2) make an anonymous facebook account and msg the wife telling her he has been cheating with at least one person.(you)
3) if the ex asks if it was u deny it.
While it is understanding to want to feel cherished by the same way you cherish your partner (calls, gifts, spend the energy to drive to you/do things…), it will never be 50/50. You are on the way, or already do, to resent your bf for this. You decided to hold back to force him to change, even if it means talking to him less, seeing him less. You withdraw yourself. You didn’t seek a conversation with him. You tried to punish him “if he doesn't do this, why should i always do this?!”.
But you should also be true to yourself: Your expectations to an relationship – he won't fullfill. That he can't even spend the night with you in your apartment. Do you really want to never live together before wedding and then realize that you are an awful match because he never learned any housework and expect you to do everything? You are already so unhappy and frustrated. Do you think this will get better soon? The honeymoon phase is over. Now it needs work of you both.