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Date: October 29, 2022
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Being a high functioning alcoholic can convince you that you don’t have a problem. But if your gf has noticed it has a negative effect on you, it probably does.
Flaws in my argument? Well of course, because there's not enough information, but you're just straight up telling that your word is the norm. She must be a drug addict, she must do horrible things. She needs to go to a mental hospital. Chill? Just a little bit. Step back and lay the facts.
1) It's been three (3) times over two (2) years. No more, no less. Is that a lot for you? The first time she didn't even go because hubbie went off. And she was just visiting. I'm still waiting for you to explain how is that enabling.
2) Speaking of which, the husband has acted horribly since the first time, for absolutely no reason. She arrived after midnight once. Sure, it's not ideal but it's not a fucking felony. Last time is this time, and she's finally asking for help. She's trying to get t her support system (OP) and yet everyone wants her to go a mental hospital. Because she must. For some reason. Even when she decided she wanted to be with OP and not alone in a fucking hospital. And when people already said that's something that actually helps.
3) There's nothing and I mean NOTHING that says that the sister is bad for OP besides ruining the husband's vibes. Literally that's it. If something big had happened I think it would be very stupid of OP to leave it out. So I'm assuming that what's in the text happened and what's not, didn't. So, again, no reason for the sister to be locked up.
4) OP ALSO THINKS HER HUSBAND IS IN THE WORNG. Even if the husband had a good reason to be mad, which IMO that's yet to be proved, OP can decide if her sister is more important to her that him. Her guts are telling her something and she should listen.
5) OP already said hospitals won't work on her sister, either because they just won't or she just doesn't want them to. She's an adult so let her decide where she feels more safe. Since there is nothing on the post saying she's a danger to OP then she should be able to stay in her company. Even if she was a drug user or whatever she should be able to be with her sister for a night or a couple, which is what the post is implying.
What I'm getting from you though is “Danger danger danger!! Danger to herself and to others!! Proof? Don't know her”. Even suicidal people have some sort of self control, she's (hopefully) not going to kill herself the moment OP looks away. She most probably just doesn't want to be alone and she's probably scared of her own mind. She needs her support system. We are talking of her current crisis, not her mental disorder as a whole. Have some fucking empathy because it really does sound like you just want to tie her in a room so she doesn't move at all.
Definitely try and take the dog away from her also look up some sort of services to help with it. Try and bring proof though.
I wouldn’t expect much else though since they’re wanting to get married in their early/mid 20’s lol brain still isn’t done developing.
If you can blow $300 on each of these friends, you could’ve gotten your girlfriend something. Why does it have to be “wait till your birthday” why not get her something too? You didn’t have to go out of your way to spend $900 on these friends just because they helped you get this job. You could’ve taken them out to lunch or something. But spending $900 on friends and then questioning why your girlfriend is upset is beyond me lmao. She feels like you’d rather spend close to a grand on other people and just left her out and “oh wait till your birthday” Why do you have to wait for her birthday to give her a gift? Why can’t you get a gift for her and say, “I was thinking of you and wanted to get you a gift” you don’t have to wait till special days/holidays/birthdays to give a gift…..
This is really good advice. Thank you so much I’ll have a serious talk with him later ❤️
Trust your gut. If you need evidence, hire the PI. At the least, he is lying. Why lie? Because he has something to hide.
It's called a private life, some people like to keep it… Private.
“Hey, I appreciate that you take the time to tell me when someone hits on you, but I often see it as something insignificant. I trust you. You are always welcome to share that info, but you shouldn't feel like you have to. Do you feel it necessary to share it every time?”
That you know of ?
Break up and try to sue him for it
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It doesn’t matter how successful you are in life money doesn’t buy happiness/love. The root of the issue is you, not your materialistic views. A guy would date a girl with no ass/tits bc they love them for them. It’s all about connecting with the person. To answer your question you need to be yourself and connect with someone you have the same interest in
Gotta know if I'm about to be rich having an immaculate conception.
Gotta know if I'm about to be rich having an immaculate conception.
You'd think those in their 30/40s that grew up with Jurassic Park “life finds a way” would know.