Also, the bullet point about his last relationship ending badly and him having been cheated on: Why is this your fuckin problem, exactly? I’m so over people being shitty and controlling because they refuse to deal with their own baggage.
Can they? Sure. Will they when they have a partner who will offer them forgiveness for their actions, require no change, and stay with them no matter what? No. They’ll escalate, which is what you’re seeing now. Now he’s going in person, and you’re teaching him that your relationship with him will absorb that behavior as well.
What is your reasoning for moving on and finding someone else outside being scared of taking a shot? Like she is clearly engaged in you, notices you, so as a foundation that isn't bad.
Do you chat outside work? You complimenting her selfies on insta, maybe sneaking some flirt in? When together how are you with her?
Because vibe is a big deal. If the vibe is good enough then asking her out is just a formality. If you're already flirting then really the 'risk' is relatively low.
So reflect on exactly where your dynamic is at. If you haven't been pushing interaction when you can then maybe you should start.
That's a gross thing to say to a 10 year old.
You’re right. It’s condescending.
Also, the bullet point about his last relationship ending badly and him having been cheated on: Why is this your fuckin problem, exactly? I’m so over people being shitty and controlling because they refuse to deal with their own baggage.
Being a mother isn’t a bad situation.
Can they? Sure. Will they when they have a partner who will offer them forgiveness for their actions, require no change, and stay with them no matter what? No. They’ll escalate, which is what you’re seeing now. Now he’s going in person, and you’re teaching him that your relationship with him will absorb that behavior as well.
What is your reasoning for moving on and finding someone else outside being scared of taking a shot? Like she is clearly engaged in you, notices you, so as a foundation that isn't bad.
Do you chat outside work? You complimenting her selfies on insta, maybe sneaking some flirt in? When together how are you with her?
Because vibe is a big deal. If the vibe is good enough then asking her out is just a formality. If you're already flirting then really the 'risk' is relatively low.
So reflect on exactly where your dynamic is at. If you haven't been pushing interaction when you can then maybe you should start.
If it was by accident which sounds like it was then tbh I wouldn’t break up with someone over an accident ?
Wtf? Where does op mention getting lots of sex?