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tease with feet [Multi Goal]
Date: November 25, 2022
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tease with feet [Multi Goal]
I would! It should make her uncomfortable if you didn’t like the physical contact or felt weird being alone with them, or she is not a very good friend.
Try to frame it in a way that you aren’t focused on their relationship/business but you respect her to much to not say anything. That you would want to know asap if your partner had made her uncomfortable to be alone with them!
You sound worried that you’d be kinda accusing him of cheating of some sort, or leading her on; but just keep mentioning your friendship is meaningful, and that you don’t want there to ever be secrets like that between you.
Totally agree, but that's my partner for life and these things effect my household so I really do need to pick up the slack. I've been his business manager for about our entire relationship so that's luckily not something I've had to pick up as extra work it just feels like more emotional labor I guess? It's also hot to fault him because I've lived here my whole life and at 26 do not have a doctor because how hard it is to find one accepting patients. You basically have to keep calling all doctors offices every 3 to 5 months for when some patients die and they are willing to take you on. So I know he really is trying but I'm so disheartened it was forgotten at his most recent doctors appt when we were there for Christmas. Granted this was at the 3 month mark without Adderall and I stayed with his family instead of accompanying him to the doctor so I couldn't be there to remind him. Again, not at all my responsibility but the kind of thing you want to do for someone you care about that's struggling, ya know? But unfortunately I didn't accompany him, and he wasn't able to remember on his own and his doctors like yeah no problem we can switch you just have to have you come into the office like the office isn't in California and we're in NY ? again this is the sweetest most caring man I've ever known in my life I just never realized how truly bad his adhd is until the past 6 months not being able to get his meds
What's harder? A really painful and difficult conversation now… Or being gradually more unfulfilled the rest of your life?
I've been there, OP. Trust me. It's so hard, but it beats the alternative. I've gotten away from manipulative people, and life was harder at first, but then it got much, much better than before.
BTW, I notice people are downvoting you a lot, and that sucks. I wanted to offer some insight. First of all, these people don't know you, so it's not personal. But they spend a lot of time on these relationship forums, so they've seen people make the same mistakes before. They're frustrated when they see someone making them, but it only seems obvious to them, not to you.
Also, their frustration is aimed more at your manipulative partner. You may be inexperienced, but it wouldn't matter as much if you weren't with someone who is clearly trying to take advantage of that. You are the victim in this situation- you're just trying to live your best life while being loved. You're not trying to take anything away from anyone. He is.
Being a stronger person takes a lot of time and work. I'm still working on it myself. For example, a friend I trusted recently did something awful to me. It blindsided me, and I'm scared and confused about how to address it. But I can still tell I'm handling it better, with more strength and maturity, than I would have a few years ago.
Keep your faith in yourself. Listen to your instincts, and if someone tries to convince you to do something that feels wrong, try to be strong and fight for yourself. Good luck.
This sounds like either an issue that she requires therapy for, or a fetish you didn't sign up for.
Do you and your wife participate in BDSM and do you think there's a possibility that she's a Little? I've heard that some people live their private lives (or even entire lives, 24/7) as Littles and I can't help but wonder if your wife might be one and either hasn't informed you or isn't aware that it's a thing yet. If it's genuinely that she's a Little, it sounds like she's a Lifestyler in either the Older Littles (like 7-11) or Middles (12-17) range.
Regardless, this is a conversation that you will have to have on a public area. Maybe a park or something, but NOT at home of that's where she's age-regressing. She needs to be an adult for this conversation and it sounds like she can't do that at home.
Express that you love her but no longer wish to do ANY age roleplay with her. It makes you feel like a pedophile and you are no longer consenting. Also tell her, point blank, that you are concerned for her because she seems to roleplay as soon as she gets home and that it doesn't seem healthy, nor do you consent to 24/7 roleplay in the house. Tell her you'd like couples counseling and that you still definitely want to have sex with her, just never again with that kink.
Don't think it is a coincidence that you “had” to move in with him and that he just happens to have zero respect for your boundaries. Would he still want you to live with him if you decided you wanted to sleep on the sofa and have no more sexual contact with him?
ohh, so that’s the problem— well i mean, there is such thing as a “power bottom” lol, where you’re still ordering around the person on top of you? alternatively maybe your partner could get better at topping, and make you want to feel submissive? not sure if that’s possible for you ahah. but that’s what my bf does for me, if i shove him down far enough he submits (ofc in a consensual way, yk?) it could be an issue on both sides
I always said the secret to a good relationship is separate residences. i should have listened to myself. 😉
No it doesn't. It does mean that he does have weird roommates with unstable behaviors.
Imagine you were a single woman in your own home and you hear noises. Think about that! The roommate thought there was at least one intruder. She corners OP and gets her identity confirmed by the bf and then lets her go. The bf majorly fucked up my not texting his roommates to tell them that a complete stranger was in their house. OP isnlucky she was not killed!
But I bet there is a lot of other weird shit going on.