If his actions before are not enough for you to have wanted to already leave or get divorced, I’d say this one thing shouldn’t completely make you 180 your relationship with this person. He lied which isn’t okay, but he’s very different from most narcissists if he went seeking therapy.
There is a huge difference between someone with narcissistic personality disorder who is abusive, manipulative, selfish, cheating lairs that are unsafe for your physical and emotional/ mental health and one that has the disorder but have tried to make sure they are seen by a therapist to get help and to not harm others.
I know he's been manipulative previously, although I don't fully believe this offer to breakup is insincere. He even asked me what do I propose that could make things better, saying that the wait and see approach hasn't worked and things have only gotten worse for him.
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Did she take them to her parents because they were the people who arranged the marriage?
If his actions before are not enough for you to have wanted to already leave or get divorced, I’d say this one thing shouldn’t completely make you 180 your relationship with this person. He lied which isn’t okay, but he’s very different from most narcissists if he went seeking therapy.
There is a huge difference between someone with narcissistic personality disorder who is abusive, manipulative, selfish, cheating lairs that are unsafe for your physical and emotional/ mental health and one that has the disorder but have tried to make sure they are seen by a therapist to get help and to not harm others.
I know he's been manipulative previously, although I don't fully believe this offer to breakup is insincere. He even asked me what do I propose that could make things better, saying that the wait and see approach hasn't worked and things have only gotten worse for him.
Hello /u/throwRA727392738, we've seen an influx of posts related to specific influencers and have made a decision to remove them.
If your post has to do with a significant other who's ascribing to a “high value/low value” standard, please note that while it's your partner's right to do this, it's just as much your right to opt out of such a relationship. Changing them is unlikely to succeed, and advice on past posts about this topic mirror this conclusion.
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Agreed
This person is not your friend
You get that…right?
She's not a great friend. Not even in the slightest