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Anya_Marlowe, 29 y.o.
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Date: November 28, 2022
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You're 21, of course you're broke, just like I was at 21. My wife and I met when I was 23 and still broke as hell, but you know what, she had faith that I would build myself into someone better and helped me do it.
She would joke she was “preemptive gold digging” but really what she was doing was putting her faith in me that I was going to make something of myself one day, that I would be able to provide for our future family. She was with me when we were broke, eating baked potatoes and ramen way too often. She was with me when every day was a struggle to get by and a date was a movie at the budget theater showing movies already out of the normal theaters with $3 tickets. She was with me when the only gifts I was able to get her were cheap and more sentimental than anything else.
Well at 28 I was finally able to buy her a home, but we were still always broke, then a couple of years later I was able to advance to Senior IT Security Engineer jobs with my experience. Things QUICKLY changed, I had money, I could buy her nice things, we could go out more, and we did. I love to spoil my wife and I can finally do it!
Your GF wants to skip the nude part, she wants to skip struggling as a young couple and get straight to the “good part”. She doesn't understand the fact that it takes time to work into a better position in life, YEARS. Or she does and doesn't want to go through the hard part. Or she doesn't believe in you and doesn't think you'll ever get there.
Regardless of why, the fact is that you deserve someone who will be with you through the hot times and has confidence in you. Who will help you struggle and get to a better place. You deserve a partner that will be with your for richer or poorer, for better or worse, in sickness and in health. I don't think she's the one to do that for you.
If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck… prolly a duck. Your dude fucked the prostitute.
Very much this
That’s because everything is your fault.
Your six year old daughter had zero say in your actions.
You chose to have an affair with a married man.
You chose to have children with that married man.
You chose to abandon those children with your mother-in-law/dying husband in order to raise a rich person’s kids in another country while literally pretending your kids did not exist.
You chose to never check in on your children, which allowed your mother-in-law to neglect/abuse your kids, especially your daughter.
You then chose to abandon your children to your sister, instead of again raising your actual kids.
Then you chose to put all your efforts on your son, because well culture.
Then you decided your daughter would get pregnant in high school and was shocked when she didn’t.
Then you decided she wouldn’t make it to college and would just get drunk a lot even though she graduated.
Then you decided when she became successful in spite of your terrible acts against her that she was now worthy of your time but actually you are worthy of her money.
Then you were horrified and decided she lacked empathy when she wouldn’t give you ridiculous amounts of money even though culture dictates, your son should be paying your bills.
Then you chose to go on the Internet to find strangers to help you manipulate your abused daughter into giving you money instead of choosing to leave her alone which would be the only decent thing you could possibly choose to do, but won’t because you won’t benefit.
Every choice you have ever made was for your benefit at the expense of everyone else around you especially your daughter.
The Internet cannot help you manipulate your kid into being an ATM, especially since culture dictates she’s not capable of doing it anyway.
I don’t think you have a right to resent her or call her feelings hypocritical. She’s allowed to be a little insecure and look for the same reassurance she gave you at the start of your relationship.
On everything else, I would just say take some time to think everything through and adjust to your new understanding of yourself. Don’t make a rash decision that you may regret because you’re overwhelmed with new emotions and in a way, finding yourself.
Yeah because you never know if they can support you, it’s draining when you are going through something and then someone is venting and you can’t really emotionally support them as much as you can
That's not bad at all. Basically just a warning to not be a dick.
If he didn't want to continue on his dick path he would have acknowledged his behaviour and gone to the wedding