It does erode trust and causes real pain. Especially when she was sharing something vulnerable and scary. She just learned that he won’t handle it well. That her feelings aren’t safe with him. That’s a big deal. He can be upset without deeply cutting his partner.
Do u see like u are blaming urself for something u shouldn’t be?
Please leave this man before any more damaged is caused. And get a therapist to work through ur issues because u will continue to attract men who can sense ur insecurities from a mile away and will always be toxic and abusive and etc.
As an animal person, her behavior would be an instant turn off and eventual dealbreaker for me. I’m allergic to dogs and we have one (I knew about the allergy prior to adopting as well) and I would sooner rehome our pup than let her live an unfulfilled and unhappy life (I would never though – I accepted a long time ago that I would just deal with it and even on bad days I have never considered giving her up.)
You're completely justified.
Don't tolerate this kind of manipulative behaviour.
If you need to ask permission to kiss your girlfriend, that's not your girlfriend, that's a prostitute using affection as currency.
Can be even younger, sadly.
((HUGS)) Get tested and remember you deserve loyalty!
He said no. I don’t understand what is up for debate here. Either pay for yourself or don’t go.
It does erode trust and causes real pain. Especially when she was sharing something vulnerable and scary. She just learned that he won’t handle it well. That her feelings aren’t safe with him. That’s a big deal. He can be upset without deeply cutting his partner.
Do u see like u are blaming urself for something u shouldn’t be?
Please leave this man before any more damaged is caused. And get a therapist to work through ur issues because u will continue to attract men who can sense ur insecurities from a mile away and will always be toxic and abusive and etc.
Leave now.
As an animal person, her behavior would be an instant turn off and eventual dealbreaker for me. I’m allergic to dogs and we have one (I knew about the allergy prior to adopting as well) and I would sooner rehome our pup than let her live an unfulfilled and unhappy life (I would never though – I accepted a long time ago that I would just deal with it and even on bad days I have never considered giving her up.)