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Birth Date: 2003-11-29
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorRed
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
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Date: November 19, 2022
That's a really long story. And I am mostly at fault. When we were dating we were crazy in love, and do when her family pressured us to get married since it would “make our lives easier” along with all these other “pros”, we made the poor decision to go through with it. But we were different people and after we got married it started to show. I focused on taking care of her physical needs such as food, a home, and other things. I neglected her emotional needs and we didn't communicate well enough to solve this problem. When she got pregnant, we were so happy and she thought things would change. Then COVID hit. I was unemployed for a while, working odd jobs here and there to make money. I became even more focused on physical needs and less on emotional ones. I got my old job back for a while and it helped. Then literally the night we were in the delivery room, as she's giving birth to my daughter, I find out my old job is closing again due to the pandemic. We started burning through our savings while I tried finding other ways to earn money and I became more emotionally distant. She fell out of love with me. I don't blame her. I made mistakes that I wish I could undo. I tried to make things work, she tried also, but it didn't help. I lost her love and I couldn't win it back. I wanted to take her to the US so I could give her a better life. I hoped that would reignite our love. We made plans. But it was too late. She had someone else and now I didn't want to go through with those plans.
I saw a therapist in my darkest moment, when I was having scary thoughts and I got scared. But I stopped because somehow I managed to get better.
We talk about this all the time and this is why I am worried. He says he doesn't trust me much anymore and that I am not trying to go in the same direction as him. But that he wants me to get better for myself first
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How you address this will depend on her. How does she deal with fear, problem solving etc. Does she have self esteem issues, does she worry but do nothing about it.
You can explain that “figure” never gets lost, because everyone has a figure. Ask her to tell you what “having a figure” means to her.
You can talk about her fears and rationalise each one, provide a framework to reimagine what do real people look like. Perhaps use instagram as an example as you can find pictures that people post of the insta picture and the real picture, which are often very different.
If she has self esteem issues and rejects compliments about her figure then focus on her qualities like care, kindness, compassion. Things that she does that impress you and makes her more loveable.
Combating fear with managing it better can also help a lot, take those negative thoughts and divert them to something positive can really change how your brain works and stops people obsessing over what they think has changed.
Sorry to hear that. Maybe you can pose a real threat next year.