Well, the fact she talks about you to other people, that is a good sign.
First, you need to figure out if she is dating someone.
If she is, you check out and drop it.
If she is not… I think you could work more on your familiarity.
You don't need to drop the bomb that you have been crushing on her… instead, work on developing some chemistry and establish hanging out, outside of work.
Lay more of a foundation. Test a bit of flirting. If everything is in place and it feels natural, confessing makes it a lot more receptive.
Would you rather toss your heart into the pitch black? Or would you rather toss it in the light?
Getting on a more personal level first, increases the chances of a positive reaction.
OP intentionally hurt his partner because he heard something he didn’t like. You don’t say something like that unless your goal is to cause someone pain.
Personally, I wouldn’t feel safe marrying someone who reacts this way to a potentially difficult conversation. Marriage is hot. What happens when there’s another stressful issue? What other fucked up insults does he have ready to go? Idk, this whole post grossed me out.
This is about as real as those divorce papers.
Understanding is not excusing. “I understand why that happened.” Does not mean “i agree with or excuse what happened.” Fairly simple concept.
I sense this is gonna turn into an AITA post titled, “Am I the Asshole for dosing my roommate's nightly glass of water with Beano?”
Well, the fact she talks about you to other people, that is a good sign.
First, you need to figure out if she is dating someone.
If she is, you check out and drop it.
If she is not… I think you could work more on your familiarity.
You don't need to drop the bomb that you have been crushing on her… instead, work on developing some chemistry and establish hanging out, outside of work.
Lay more of a foundation. Test a bit of flirting. If everything is in place and it feels natural, confessing makes it a lot more receptive.
Would you rather toss your heart into the pitch black? Or would you rather toss it in the light?
Getting on a more personal level first, increases the chances of a positive reaction.
She is not about to change. She has proven that. So you either accept her as is or leave. The choice is very simple.
OP intentionally hurt his partner because he heard something he didn’t like. You don’t say something like that unless your goal is to cause someone pain.
Personally, I wouldn’t feel safe marrying someone who reacts this way to a potentially difficult conversation. Marriage is hot. What happens when there’s another stressful issue? What other fucked up insults does he have ready to go? Idk, this whole post grossed me out.
you never know. Some people are awkward at this dating app thing. Go ahead and meet him.
you really never know until you meet someone. answer him honestly and if he does the same, plan a date and just in case, Plan a way out lol.
Most of all, have fun