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It is fantasy because every person wants to have that “perfect” relationship like Gomez and Morticia Addams or any other fictional couple, but the reality is there's nobody out there who might match the essence of what you want your ideal partner to be like
He allowed his family to use malice against me in at least 2 occasions. To me, malice is not forgiveable. Malice is always the very last conclusion I jump to, but their actions were entirely malicious. He was an accomplice in these events by going along with his family and did nothing until I was already hurt.
This completely crushed my trust in his family and fractured my trust in him.
My main focus right here is my anger and fight response. I am not okay with my actions and responses. I find them very alarming.
We have a therapist here, what a joke
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Wow… you stayed with a man who exposed you to HIV by not revealing his status and having unprotected sex with you? Why?
Perhaps I should talk to their parents about contacting APS
I think your relationship is over. You have to leave at this point. I think the distance between you and your husband is growing. Thank god you don’t have kids. How do you think this will be in 10 years or 20 years with 3 kids and mortgage.
They mean that you showing you're more attracted to her by initiating sex, cuddles, and generally showing more affection will make her subconsciously believe you enjoy her figure more now than before. As opposed to words such as compliments or something.
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If only one of the group agrees with you…….
Well have fun being alone with just your bf and his edgy jokes.
She probably has low estrogen due to too much birth control
Couples doing couple things is another issue entirely and as long as both ppl are into it then it’s no problem.
Our friendship group aligns with us on major ethical/moral issues. Everyone in our circles thinks strippers at a bachelor party is a super bizarre. Besides the ethics around monogamy the men in particular have said there’s no enjoyment unless she’s actually into you – so in order to pay someone to live! a delusion for 15mins you’d have to be a pretty big loser. I would describe myself liberal in that sense – I can see the utility and enjoyment. I was shocked that my mr as a young man had never been (he was a big drinker/partier in university and lived in a town in europe with a pretty big red light district for uni). I’ve been in them out of curiosity as soon as I turned 18.
Dump her
Glad it helped! We’ve been playing with other folks for about 10 years now. It’s never caused us any issues, because we both view the situation the same way and we talked a lot about it before acting on anything.
The first couple were pretty spontaneous one time events…but because we’d talked about it and knew our boundaries already it was pretty easy to navigate. We’ve had a couple of long-term partners since then…it’s a lot better when you have a friend that you make happy and have a chance to get to know sexually. A lot more fun and a lot more experimentation! It’s just important to get to know long-term partners first to make sure you won’t be hurting anyone’s feelings and that they are on the same page with you. With long-term friends we will usually meet once or twice a month.
I always let my wife take the lead in finding people she’s interested in. Whether we see someone while out, or have an acquaintance she thinks might be interested, she picks the person. If we are using a dating app, then we are both in there to read bios and see if someone might be a good fit before reaching out. We know each other extremely well, so I know what she finds attractive. For me I don’t mind who it is…she has good taste and if she thinks they’re attractive I usually do too.
The most important part of all of this is that it’s not something either of us NEED. It’s sexy and fun and we enjoy it…but our sex life is amazing on our own. For us playing with others is a bonus…like sprinkles on top of the cake. I think that contributes heavily to why it’s never caused issues…no one is pushing for it all the time and it never gets in the way of our relationship. She had also had some experiences with women prior to us getting together, so she was confident in her sexuality and what she ultimately wants.
Hope y’all have a great time together!
i really don't understand, she told me this night she had nightmares, she couldn't sleep and so on. that i didnt respect her at all. i told her everything is a missunderstaning and nothing more, i didn't cheat or anything even close. she argued with me for 3 hours this morning and 4 hours yesterday
As cold as that is – you’re probably right.
To me, it's the feelings that mess with the friendship, before the actions do. You've both admitted your feelings to each other, which seem genuine- I think you've got to see it through at this point.
Like, things will be awkward if you don't give it a try, and you'll always wonder if you should have. Only way you get back to where you were as platonic friends is if you try to date and quickly figure out it just doesn't feel right- but at least then you'll know. Or you'll end up happily married with a dog/cat/kids within a few years. Those are the two main possibilities here.
It’s a bad idea to go to counseling with an abuser. Unfortunately, it often backfires and teaches them new ways to manipulate you. He is absolutely terrible and you need to cut your losses and dump him yesterday. He’s a fucking nightmare asshole from the depths of hell. No offense.
Wow I see why you needed to vent that! ?
I think you've probably seen him since posting this now but I would just straight up be like “hi welcome home why did you say you cheated on me this morning?”
I hope for all your sakes it was genuine sleep talk bollocks
My first time didn’t hurt at all. It’s not SUPPOSED to hurt. Be a little uncomfortable, perhaps, but not cause agonizing pain. Please stop spreading misinformation.
Between how shitty he was on the Germany trip and the fact that he's not considering the fact that you chose to move to accommodate him, while he signed a year long lease without consulting you beforehand, I really don't know why you would want to continue to be with him.
Normally, I would say that your initiation of a “break” would be a good enough reason for him to be worried about living with you, and therefore back out on moving in 2 months later. However, the break being for a few days makes it worse IMO, because he decided very quickly to decide and renew the lease over trying to work through this with you, if he supposedly wanted to (you made it sound like you both were still talking and working things out through the break). To me, I would say this argument was giving him an excuse to not move in with you, but maybe I'm cynical… So, if there's anything to learn from this about relationships, I would say don't do breaks – stay together and work things out, or break up for good.
Oh I know what you mean, buddy!
The balance of power will change and affect the relationship when one person moves to management. It's inevitable. If he thinks he'll get respect in retail, he has a big shock coming. And I want to say good for you for knowing your value and staying true to yourself. It's not easy.
Spark from the burning incest might ignite the methane coming out of her arse and blow up the entire premises ….
Are you and I with the same person??? Worse for me is my bf has seasonal job so from nov 1- march 30 he doesn’t work. He literally doesn’t leave the house. I do the shopping so there will be times he literally only leaves the house for thanksgiving and Christmas Day and that’s only because I (in his words) FORCE him.. so I do not get a single day to myself until his work season starts back up. (Where as he gets 4 12 hour days of completely alone)
you are scary
She should get a job though so she’s not reliant on this dude’s unrealistic expectations and won’t be left high and dry.
This is why children shouldn’t get married
The fact that your husband is more worried about 'looking bad' than doing a nice normal thing for their kid is extremely worrisome to me. There must be something bigger going on. Is he on drugs? Having an affair? Did he have a bad experience at a birthday as a kid and has unresolved trauma?
His responses are really odd and out of line with how a normal person would respond. I anticipate that this is just the tip of the iceberg you've shared here.
10 races a year? That’s roughly 1/5 of your weekends. This is a significant amount of time that eats up good fractions of the time you have free. How many races do you have to travel for?
He is also impacted by then when you need to get up, when you need to go to bed (before and after), how long you are away if you travel, what you are up for doing the next few days as you recover, etc.
I suspect he is building resentment over this hobby that sounds like it has grown to take over a bigger and bigger part of your life and by extension his life as well.
I ran triathlons for a time, I know this life style and it is a lot. You say you even do half and full marathons, training time for those distances is big too. This isn’t a hobby like playing some guitar in the spare time, but rather more being in a band that does gigs.
I think you need to talk with your husband about just how much time is a reasonable allocation for each of your “hobbies”. And really listen. Just because you call something a hobby doesn’t mean your partner has to be OK with any level of time commitment.
I think people are being super disingenuous throughout this thread. Husband is not “calling her weird for wanting a healthy lifestyle” or whatever bs, he’s pointing out (rightfully so) that it’s an incredibly boring event to attend on your own while your partner runs for 1-4 hours, seeing them at most twice throughout that entire time. I can understand why someone would prefer actual races to casual runs, but I can also recognize that it’s a bit abnormal (at least thinking of all the runners I know).
I used to run cross country and I actively disliked having people at my meets. I realize that I’m far from a representative sample of all runners, but I cannot for the life of me understand why people require attention while simultaneously doing things they supposedly love. Aren’t hobbies things you enjoy for their own merit, rather than things you enjoy because they bring you attention?
I totally get wanting support on your first couple of longer races, BUT you’re running a race basically EVERY MONTH. That’s basically 1 weekend out of every 4 or 5 that he’s got to spend a good chunk of time sitting around at what is—and I’m saying this as a former runner who understands why people love it—the single most boring sport to watch live.
It just strikes me as sort of selfish. I have plenty of hobbies that I love to partake in with people who also share that interest, but can’t imagine pressuring my girlfriend to join me while knowing she’s going to be alone having a bad time the whole time simply because “I want the support”. It would ruin the fun for me knowing that she’s not having a good time and only there because I asked.
I'd go scorched earth, but thats just me.
Omg yes. “What a coincidence, uh” xDD