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Date: October 20, 2022
At least he’s showing you his red flags right up front. If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you.
Though frankly, the fact that you’re even considering monkey-branching to him doesn’t exactly speak well of your character either. Maybe the two of you are not so poorly suited after all.
I agree mostly
It’s never too late to be honest. It may feeeeel too late for a lot of things, but those feelings don’t make it real. Being honest is the last shot of redemption for whatever situation is lacking honesty. Doooo it. The worst that can happen is the two of you are now facing reality together.
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I think a lot of people downplay or straight out lie about their experience and how they feel for fear of other peoples’ opinions. Or maybe it’s a “let’s all be miserable together”? I dunno.
What I DO know is that my friends who have had bio children have suffered physically, financially, and emotionally. And the physical stuff isn’t exactly “minor”. My best GF had to have reconstructive surgery for her lady bits for example—and she’s an OBGYN and knew it was a risk. It has really hurt her sex life. I’d say that across my friend group, those who have had children (women and men) don’t regret it per se but wish they hadn’t. If that makes sense.
It makes sense to me to be looking at it all eyes wide open.
This is important info that should be on your post. Does this mean your younger brothers are her children? It sounds like they are. Your mother needs therapy. She is alienating you for something she needs to heal from but is refusing to. It’s been a decade and she is punishing you instead of seeking help for trauma. All she is doing is ensuring estrangement with her ultimatum and guilt trip demands.
He doesn't prioritize you, care about your feelings, nor respect your boundaries because secretly he's really into her, has feeling beyond friendship for her, and is having (at the very least) an emotional affair.
Instead of shutting that s*it down naked, long ago like you should have, you gave him toothless boundaries with zero consequences for breaking them. So break them he did. So break them he'll continue to do. The longer you didn't put your foot down the more emotionally invested he became in her.
After he'd already broken your boundaries regarding her, he even managed to talk you into letting him connect with her in the flesh and risk his marriage in person. And he sure did, with you right there. What are you going to do about that, OP?
After this last gigantic red flag where he ran off to secretly meet up with her behind your back it's time for a come to jeezus moment for him. He cuts her off and goes no contact or you're done. And MEAN IT! He needs to find a new group to on-line game with.
I'm sorry, OP, but this isn't “just friends”. You should put on your stealth detective hat and dig deeper. You probably don't know the truth and true extent of their communication because it's likely done in secret on an app or program you're not aware of.
You don't brazenly and knowingly keep risking your marriage by breaking boundaries and lying to and deceiving your hurt, concerned wife, going so far as to even sneak off behind your wife's back for a few stolen moments with this other woman, if she's “just a friend”.
I wouldn't be surprised if your husband got jealous seeing her hanging on that other guy (or that she did it to provoke that reaction) and that's the reason he went for broke and sh*t all over you and your agreed upon, clear and concise boundary of not being alone with her.
This has gone waaaay too far. All the secretiveness. Him putting her over you. Him turning to her and away from you. His lying and gaslighting. His deceit and denials. Ask him if this situation were reversed and it was you who'd done all these things with another man, would he be ok with it? He's lying his *ss off if he says he would be! She needs to be gone from his life for good. He has a choice to make. His “friendship” with her or his marriage to you.
This is vague as hell. Who are these relatives in relation to you and your Mom?
This is vague as hell. Who are these relatives in relation to you and your Mom?