Luckily she hasn't crossed any lines yet and i have discussed with her that I only see her as a niece. Being 13 hours away from them does help limit the interactions with her thankfully. But sometimes I can't help but wonder if this is part of the problem as well. While in my mind she is family, I can't help but wonder if the distance prevents her for making those familial connections since I'm not there very often to establish those boundaries
please tell her. there are kids involved ffs. would you want to know the father of your 4 kids is cheating on you? you're being a decent human by telling her, what she does and how she reacts is on her. if she reacts badly, all you can do is say sorry and block them both. you're doing your part. think of the kids involved. that hurts me honestly.
I’ve been in your shoes and I empathize with your feelings. He said he doesn’t want a relationship, believe him. And he also doesn’t appear to want to talk everyday. I’ve met guys like that and it didn’t work out. The boyfriends I’ve had have always texted me everyday throughout the day. This is how I approached guys who don’t want a relationship and don’t want to talk everyday: I view reaching out to them as an alcoholic reaching for a drink. Try as hot as you can to be the distant one. Also please understand this relationship might not work out. I wish you all the best. You deserve someone who will share their days with you. You will find him.
Itll pass.
Luckily she hasn't crossed any lines yet and i have discussed with her that I only see her as a niece. Being 13 hours away from them does help limit the interactions with her thankfully. But sometimes I can't help but wonder if this is part of the problem as well. While in my mind she is family, I can't help but wonder if the distance prevents her for making those familial connections since I'm not there very often to establish those boundaries
please tell her. there are kids involved ffs. would you want to know the father of your 4 kids is cheating on you? you're being a decent human by telling her, what she does and how she reacts is on her. if she reacts badly, all you can do is say sorry and block them both. you're doing your part. think of the kids involved. that hurts me honestly.
I’ve been in your shoes and I empathize with your feelings. He said he doesn’t want a relationship, believe him. And he also doesn’t appear to want to talk everyday. I’ve met guys like that and it didn’t work out. The boyfriends I’ve had have always texted me everyday throughout the day. This is how I approached guys who don’t want a relationship and don’t want to talk everyday: I view reaching out to them as an alcoholic reaching for a drink. Try as hot as you can to be the distant one. Also please understand this relationship might not work out. I wish you all the best. You deserve someone who will share their days with you. You will find him.