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domi playing [Multi Goal]
Date: September 25, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
domi playing [Multi Goal]
Lmao, bye bitch
My cousin was in a somewhat similar situation. She has 4 kids with 3 different fathers and she’s now been with her husband for 23 years. He’s not the father to any of the kids but is basically their father since some of the dads aren’t around much. They seem happy. We definitely thought it was weird, though. He’s a really nice guy. It can work if you want it to work.
I mean she quite possibly believes it herself but it doesn’t mean it’s true
I think your explanation in your post is sufficient. His insecurity is not your responsibility to manage. He needs to work through it himself. If he keeps this up he’s basically saying you’ll either be accosted, or you’ll cheat. Both of which are wild assumptions, but the second one calls into question the trust he does or doesn’t have for you.
“They started trying without me knowing”
Op this isn't your wife. Your not in a relationship with her. Your THEIR pawn who financially supports your two asshole roomates.
“I'm worried me leaving might stress her out and she might loose the baby”
Op – this won't happen. She hadn't turned into a fragile leaf because she's pregnant.
She can face the consequences of cheating on you in your face.
She might cry a bit, might be annoyed that she looses your $$ and emotional support for a while . But she will be 100% fine with her and her real partner who she is happily creating babies with.
Divorce her before the baby comes. This is not your wheelhouse. This is not your circus.
Don't DONT DONT be placed on that birth certificate.
She will leave your for the bf make you pay for the privilege of them raising a kid together that isn't yours.
Please stop sacrificing yourself to the temple of her selfishness. Lease choose you!! These two are Users!!
Divorce her asap. Untangle yourself from the baby drama before you get caught up in very expensive life long legal battles.
Just choose you!! This person doesn't give a fuck about you – or they wouldn't be making secret love be babies under your nose. They don't give a fuck about you. You deserve better.
Please protect you. Please choose you. And do it fast before this baby gets here. Your wife will 700% be fine.
Sounds like you misjudged your husbands mental stability and trust.
Weird after 13 years of knowing him.
His lack of ability to communicate doesn’t allow for finding a solution.
You could just fire the employee but it wouldn’t fix this issue because he’s not really discussing anything.
Are there other marital issues involved? It seem liken extreme behaviour based on untrustworthy accusations.
Off the bat, my advice would be to let it go and start the process of moving on. I actually started to elaborate as to why, but then realized it honestly isn’t necessary, because you have the ability to get your answer immediately regardless of my or anyone else’s opinion.
Let’s put things into perspective here; you describe this person as your “soulmate” but you’re afraid to shoot your shot out of fear of rejection. If you get rejected, then she’s not your soulmate.
After that, you’re putting the cart way before the horse if she says yes. Those questions will get answered by you two talking about it. Good luck.
Off the bat, my advice would be to let it go and start the process of moving on. I actually started to elaborate as to why, but then realized it honestly isn’t necessary, because you have the ability to get your answer immediately regardless of my or anyone else’s opinion.
Let’s put things into perspective here; you describe this person as your “soulmate” but you’re afraid to shoot your shot out of fear of rejection. If you get rejected, then she’s not your soulmate.
After that, you’re putting the cart way before the horse if she says yes. Those questions will get answered by you two talking about it. Good luck.
I’m starting to hate this sub so much
Real shit
You just don't WANT breaking up to be the answer but otherwise, you've tried to get him to stop letting her do these things and he won't. BECAUSE HE LIKES HER. HE LIKES THE ATTENTION.
I wish I never met him. In the beginning he was such an incredible guy and super respectful. Then he turned into a fuck boy when he started working as an emt. I feel like I need so much therapy after everything he’s put me through. He was the only guy I’d ever trusted to do anything with and I’ve never been more hurt
Thanks for the kind words, Independent.