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Date: October 24, 2022
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Oh well. You can either online your life through your parents demands and be fucking miserable for the whole of it, or tell them to mind their own business and date who you want.
Your choice.
You don’t get over this feeling. You learn to manage it. Welcome to the world of intimate relationships.
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You make it sound like your partner isn't actively working on themselves with a psychologist or other professional. Is that right? If yes, I would approach the situation from a place of worry. Me tuin that you are very worried about their mental health and want them to feel better. And that they need to see a professional. Also offer your help in setting things up and making sure they go to appointments, if that is possible for you.
If they are already seeing a professional and it is not helping, or you just feel unappreciated by their actions and are frustrated, I would consider two things. 1) are you still happy in this relationship? And 2) is your partner able to work with the feedback during her therapy sessions? You could even try couples therapy. That way, your partner can get help with your relationship dynamics. You are their partner, not their psychologists. You don't need to constantly listen to depressive thoughts.
But if you are unhappy and see no end in sight, please remember: don't keep others warm by setting yourself on fire.
Sorry, I don't see that he's been attentive or trying with you whatsoever. Can you provide some examples please?
He sounds mentally ill
Should've ditched her. She's nuts.
Fuck that, she shouldn’t do a goddamn thing or say a word to any of these people ever again.
Record EVERYTHING. Put in writing to him that you are not interested. Don't go back to your place and do what is necessary to make sure you aren't followed. Ask your teachers if you can do live if it's possible to lesson opportunities for him to find you in person. Are there students in your class that seem approachable? If someone came up to me and told me they were scared of another student and they just wanted other people to know what is going on, I would be getting everyone I knew to join in and help keep this guy under watch and away from you. Just having more people aware of the situation can be helpful. The more people know, the harder it will be for this kid to be protected from consequences and intervention.
next 10 years or so, by that time the house will already be payed for.
In the house you're getting a 30 year mortgage for?
He said that how dinner is managed in our house is very convenient.
OF COURSE he thinks that! He isn’t doing jack shit! He’s eating the food, he can get off his ass and cook some of it.
The real problem you have, though, is that his mask has slipped. You’re seeing the real him. The him that thinks you’re his maid, his mommy, and his sex toy all in one. You don’t have a partner. You have a child in an adult body.
He’s not going to change. Can you live with that?
No he does this. His friends literally decide what colours to wear. A group of them decided to wear blue and all of them wore blue
Missing alot of context. Have you talked to him about this? If so what was the consensus (ie the cause) that you 2 came up with for the lack of sex?
You have a brother. You don’t need another. He will provide no positivity to your life. He just wants to feel better about himself. He has not changed. Like you said, he waited until you were hurting over your fathers death. Why not when mom died? He blames it all on her so why did the realization that he was a total shit to you not hit home for him then? It should not take having a daughter to learn how to treat women right. Fuck him. Fuck his apology. Live your life. Be happy. Be grateful you ran away. Save your peace of mind and let him go.
Maybe you both can go to meetings together…you go to AA and she goes to Al-Anon….it will help you both and your marriage if you are both on the same page.
Girl you’re only 20. You’re so young. Plenty more people will like you, don’t worry.
This. OP, all of this is SO critically important. Tonight, sit down with your parents and explain exactly what is going on. Spell it out for them. They WILL help you. They love you and want you to be safe. As a Mom who is likely pretty close to their age, I'll tell you now, not a lot shocks us and they won't be shocked. Surprised but not shocked. And they will have the wisdom to immediately get the ball rolling to keep you safe while home.
As far as the guy goes, send 1 text stating: “Its over. I do NOT want a relationship with you. It is absolutely over. Do not contact me under any circumstances.” Then block him. Block him on all social media platforms. Block his number. Check to make sure all of your identifiable data is locked down so he can't track your address live.
If he escalates, immediately go to the police. Don't play around with this.
Sis, you will feel like a 180lb weight is off your shoudlers as soon as you pull the trigger on this. No matter what, do NOT go back to him. He is not a safe person.
I agree with others saying you aren't safe in your home country. However, it also sounds like you may have gone from one concerning man/family structure to another. Your husband's reaction was over the top. It also took YOUR power to deal with the situation out of your hands. Instead of you handling it the way you wanted, your husband stepped in and inflicted violence on your family. OP, you get to decide how you want to live and how you want to be treated. You are dealing with a massive transition to a new culture, different world outlook, different relationship style etc. You might want to seek therapy to process the changes and make sure you are living the way you want. Whether you want to live! your way, your family of birth's way, your husbands way, or some combination of the above, you get to decide that. I do think you need to keep yourself safe and not be in your home country alone but your husband also seems unsafe.
Experimenting, trying, being willing to give new things a go etc is one thing but being blamed and ridiculed for physically not being able to do it is quite another.
My SIL is into all kinds of kinks and, to my mind, perversions but the thought of anal makes her gag, no joke intended. She thinks the idea is awful.
You cannot be blamed for not wanting or being able to do this and even if you did succeed, that will not be the end of it.
By the way, there is a way you can turn the tables so he can experience how it is to be in your shoes. If you dare, and I hope I'm not breaking any rules here, Google 'pegging' to see just how far the tables can be turned. After all, he is very keen on the idea…
Saying all that, your BF doesn't seem to be very considerate of you. It's easy to shout 'Leave him!' but you might want to sit down and have a long think about where you are in your relationship and what his personal qualities actually are as far as his treatment of you is concerned.
It is unacceptable behaviour. But you're making it out like he sat down and planned this. More likely it was a heat of the moment thing. He was hurt, and lashed out at her in response without giving it any thought.
Now if this happened often, OR the thing he said was more serious like bodyshaming or threats of violence, then I would say he needs to do way more work on himself and would hope the other person would get out of the relationship.
But all he did was essentially call her manipulative and likened her to her mother.
Pretty tame stuff.
>>he’s sensitive, so I go to great lengths to not make him feel guilty
Stop coddling him? He's “sensitive” when it comes to you calling him out on being a scrub — how convenient for him. He should feel guilty. You already have ample evidence that he makes promises he can't or won't keep. Stop doing his laundry. Leave it on the floor. You don't “end up” doing his laundry — let him run out of clothes, friend! I handled this by *moving out* and dating, but not sharing a living space.Stop worrying about being a nag, my god. Nag him like mad because he is lying to you when he promises but won't keep his promises? Why are you so worried about his *feelings* when he is literally happy to use your precious time on earth being his bangmaid? Being a user slob doesn't make you a bad person, but it doesn't make you a person who is maddening to live with. Stop being the magical cleaning fairy. You are enabling at this point.
He was blackout drunk. He could not consent. She was sober. That’s not cheating. That’s SA.
This is where I found that her ex had joined her in going to bed not one night but 2 nights back to back. I couldn’t believe what I had just read. However, it did not deliberately say that they had sex or anything but I think it may be safe to assume
Well you read her private journal, years of it. If she talks about sex elsewhere, then there's little reason to think she'd skip it in the entry you read. I mean, you read years, you should get the sense of how honest she is in her writing. If she discusses sex with you, there is no reason why she wouldn't write it in her journal in this instance.
Let me be blunt. She could have always put previous journals into storage is she wanted to hide them. So, she wasn't worried about them being out in the open to be read if someone pried.
That said, yes, you should leave her. You violated her privacy in a huge way, without concern. As soon as you did that, you broke her trust. You found out something that broke yours. You're even. Move on.
Thankyouuuu:-DDD
Yeah, there's just so much that could go wrong here. Even if it's entirely on the up-and-up, the other woman could get the wrong idea. It's just a nonsensical thing to do. Does he want to blow up his marriage? Because this is how to blow up a marriage.
There's that sparkling personality.
He was using dating apps to get validation from women that aren’t you.
He was swiping on women and leading them all on to believe he’s interested.
He admitted to flirting on Snapchat with a girl, who possibly could’ve been from from a dating app.
I don’t know about you, but when I go to a friends house I absolutely don’t take off my pants and furthermore, leave their house without pants on.
Girl wake up
If you're just concerned for your girlfriend's safety, then the worry about being “taken for a fool” doesn't come into play at all, because you know it's not about you.
okayy I hear u, imo this girl seems the type to take advantage, my gf is naive and this girl has evidently taken advantage of her naivety whilst under the guise of 'girl friends'.
Me not wanting to be taken for a fool rrly plays into her touching my gf in ways I find inappropriate esp with what I heard that happened between them. I feel like I'm being taken for a fool bcs this girl would say lowkey vile shit to my gf abt a sexy top and stealing her from me and while doing so tracing her finger down the middle of her chest, and then not being able to greet me normally. I didnt expect hugs a simple hi how are u didn't even happen cos she didn't look me in my eyes which initially put me off and made me thing something happened. also I think it's important to add that after the 'edible arrangement' my gf said that she felt v weird after it and she didn't like it and didn't want that to happen. she had no reason to lie to me as this happened way b4 our relationship and my gf doesn't swing that way.
I think she seems very comfortable with her friend touching her up. but I am not esp knowing what I know and seeing what I've seen. it's honestly fkn weird.
I don't think she's unfaithful I think she doesn't think abt what's happening in the moment I think she's blinded by their friendship that she doesn't see the inappropriateness in the situation at hand.
Your fiance is right. You're wrong. Apologize.
She was being disrespected by him and his actions showed he is no longer interested in building a future with her. He didn‘t consider her in big life decisions so why would he deserve to have a chance to talk things out?
This dude gives no shit and I rather tell someone that he doesn‘t rather than making her feel like she can fix things. It‘s not called being inconsiderate, it‘s called being honest. And if you read further I encouraged her to enjoy her life without him and that I know how naked it is to leave someone you love so much. Would you tell me I should stay with my ex and „cOmMuNiCAtE“ with him while he threatened to hit me several times? I don‘t think so. And I know what he‘s done is not abusive, but it shows he doesn‘t care and a relationship can only work if both people are willing to put in effort.
She deserves better than him, and what I simply did is tell her she indeed does.
Have a nice day.